Why Situationships Hurt More Than Breakups

U Up?

Betches

Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Comedy

4.7 • 14.8K Ratings

🗓️ 8 April 2026

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

Jared and Jordana are back and immediately diving into Summer House drama, breaking down the Amanda, West, and Ciara rumors and why situationships might hurt more than traditional breakups. They debate whether hooking up with a friend’s ex is worse when things weren't fully official, and what it says about dating after a long relationship. Then it’s listener dilemmas, from whether it’s petty or prudent for an ex to sneak into your apartment to grab his stuff to what it means when your husband refuses to wear his wedding ring, plus J&J weigh in on oral dealbreakers, anti-tickling boyfriends, and siblings turned roommates. Jared’s mom joins this episode for some sound perspective, it’s one you don’t want to miss! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
0:06.6	And I am Jared Fried.
0:08.8	It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana, virtually.
0:12.4	We are doing a virtual taping.
0:14.0	We, you know, listen, we did our guests and now Mama's home.
0:18.3	I'm back.
0:19.1	She's back.
0:19.9	And we're going to do these as close to airing as possible and we'll keep
0:24.9	these energetic and awesome virtual.
0:28.1	You know, if you like the YouTube, we want you to go to YouTube and see our facial expressions
0:32.7	and you can see inside of Jordana's home.
0:35.7	You can see the green behind her.
0:37.8	You can see my southern, you know, U-Up studio here in Del Rey Beach.
0:44.6	I was just walking the beach.
0:45.8	How are you?
0:46.4	What's going on?
0:47.1	I'm good.
0:47.5	I think we both need to get more character in our backgrounds.
0:50.3	Yeah, we both need something.
0:52.3	We need like a painting.
0:53.8	Sammy is actually coming. I have art. I just don't, we both need something. We need like a painting. Sammy is actually
0:54.7	coming. I have art. I just don't know how to hang it. And Sammy is actually coming over after this recording to like put up my gallery wall behind me. She's, we did a recording. I filled in for Eileen on the ad batches pod the other day. And she was like, you've been living there long enough. like you need to get it up.
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