Today on the Girl Define Show we are talking all about single women and their sexuality because there is like this common

misconception out there amongst Christians that if we just don't talk about single women and their

sexuality and if they're not saying anything to us, then they're probably not struggling and

they're probably not thinking about it. I have heard this from so many women where

they're like, she's not asking questions or they've never said anything so I'm

sure they're just fine and if we just wait to approach the subject until they're getting married

Everything will just be perfectly okay and that is such a big fat lie because if you were not hearing about single women and their struggles with sexuality

It's probably because they are just not talking to you

because they do not feel like you are a safe secure place for them to share but I

promise you pretty much every single woman out there single single woman is

thinking about sex and intimacy and their longings because

God designed them to be a sexual being. And our silence as married women is only hurting them

and not helping them. So today I'm going to give us as married women

a big encouragement on how we can reach out

and mentor single women in this area.

And if you are single, you are going to be like,

a man, thank you for speaking on behalf of us.

And I know I'm speaking on behalf of you because I am going to read your comments and

your dams that you have sent asking for married women for help in this area.

Let's jump in. What's up y'all? It's Bethany here and this is a topic I have been very, very passionate

about lately because of some comments I've received on Instagram and these comments have to do with the fact

that when we as married women talk about sex and intimacy within marriage we're only

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