Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

My name is Lisa Abramano.

I am a life coach, bestselling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse.

I am a believer in the power of an organized mind.

My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the

veil of consciousness rather than living a reactive life. May your heart feel blessed,

your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you spend time with me here at the

Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

Today we're going to be talking about why narcissists must love bomb you and the purpose of love bombing and what you need to know about love bombing if you are waking up to the reality that you have been in or are

in a narcissistic relationship. So love bombing is about creating an entirely new paradigm

that will replace the current paradigm or construct that you live in.

What I mean by that is that we are people who are living our lives, doing what we do,

we have our children.

Let's say you have manifested a relationship and you have children, you're a single mom, you're a single

dad. And you're going along a merry way and you manifest somebody who you think is awesome.

And they're acting as if and speaking as if they see you, they validate you, they hear you,

you feel amazing, you feel on top of the world.

You feel more alive than you can ever imagine. Oxytocin is flowing. Dopamine is flowing.

The sex is awesome. Like you just feel amazing. You cannot believe that you have manifested this person into your life that is so into you on every level.

And it can feel intoxicating.

In the love bombing phase of the narcissistic relationship, this is very important because what it's doing, it's making

you malleable.

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