Who Checks the Ex?

The R Spot with Iyanla

Shondaland Audio and iHeartPodcasts

Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.9 • 908 Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2024

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Iyanla is asking callers who checks the ex? How do you negotiate with your current partner about their involvement with their ex? Or maybe your ex is not respecting the boundaries you set for your new relationship. And what do we do when there are children involved? Our first guest advocates for clear boundaries. The second guest unpacks her current situation with her partner, who is allowing inappropriate boundaries to be crossed, and Iyanla advises on how to communicate her feelings. Our final guest tells Iyanla how she once had to check her partner's ex and how the ex responded. Do you want to be on the podcast? Follow Iyanla on social media for the latest call-in information! Instagram & X: @IyanlaVanzant Facebook: @DrIyanlaVanzant

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0:00.0	I amla your host your guide a teacher for Sam and a soft place to fall for others.
0:10.0	I was a miserable failure in my relationships until I love myself enough to be able to share my love with other people.
0:20.0	Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I-Heart Radio. Welcome, welcome to be our spot the place we come to examine, explore, investigate, expand our concepts and experiences of relationships, all kinds of relationships.
0:49.6	Today we've got an interesting topic.
0:54.8	Who checks the X?
0:58.5	I cannot tell you how many letters I get,
1:01.8	how many questions I get about okay I'm with this person and their X calls or
1:10.8	demands or disrespects me or intrude some way in our relationship and my partner seems to be at a loss
1:20.0	about how to deal with it.
1:22.0	Who checks the X? about how to deal with it.
1:23.0	Who checks the X?
1:25.0	When the X has a presence in your relationship
1:29.0	that's creating discord between you and your partner.
1:32.0	And why does your partner.
1:33.0	And why does your partner have such a hard time checking the X?
1:36.7	And what do you do when your partner seems to have an affinity,
1:41.4	a connection, an ongoing attachment to somebody they are no longer
1:47.4	with. Is this a Managitois? Are there three of us in this relationship or four of us?
1:54.0	And what happens should your partner have children
1:58.0	and needs to continue to be in a relationship with the X but the X is just off the chain rude
2:07.7	Disrespectful intrusive bad behavior of all manner and all kind,
2:14.0	and your partner seems to be totally oblivious.
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