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The Alli Worthington Show

Who Are You Becoming in 2026

The Alli Worthington Show

Alli Worthington

Education, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.9646 Ratings

🗓️ 8 January 2026

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Subscribe to Alli’s Substack - Wise Woman Method https://wisewomanmethod.substack.com/  Last week in my Catalyst Mastermind, a disciplined woman showed her color-coded 2026 planner, every goal mapped out. Then she quietly admitted: “I’m doing all the right things, but I still don’t feel like the right person.”   Maybe you’ve felt that too—checking every box, hitting every deadline, but still feeling something’s missing. Here’s what I told her, and what I want to tell you: The problem isn’t your plan. It’s thinking you can do your way into a new life, when you actually need to become your way into it   Doing and becoming are not the same. Achieving isn’t transforming. We spend years chasing goals but rarely ask: Who am I becoming?Today, we're moving beyond last week's conversation. Not "What am I accomplishing?" Not "What am I fixing?" Instead, who am I becoming—and is she who I want to be?   This is the identity shift that unlocks real transformation in 2026. Let’s dive in together—take a moment right now to reflect: Who are you becoming, and what is one action you can take today to align with her?   Timestamps: (01:50) - Why Identity Has to Come First (03:38) - The Real Problem With Traditional Goal-Setting (05:14) - The Daily Practice of Becoming (07:14) - Uncovering Who God Has Created You to Be (08:45) - Three Practical Steps to Becoming   WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE Links to great things we discussed:  Catalyst Mastermind Alli’s Product Recommendation - Spindrift Drinks Start your Free 30-day trial of Uplift! Subscribe to Alli’s Substack - Wise Woman Method https://wisewomanmethod.substack.com/  I hope you loved this episode! 🎉Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so you never miss a thing. And guess what? We're on YouTube! If you're loving the content, show us some love by leaving a review and giving us some stars—it means the world to me! Take care, and stay fabulous!    xo, Alli

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0:00.0

I want to tell you about a conversation I had last week with someone who is in the Catalyst

0:04.8

mastermind with me this year. She was frustrated. She's overwhelmed. She had a perfectly organized planner.

0:12.3

She, through Zoom, was showing me all of her 2026 goals and fitness plans and business targets

0:17.6

and relationship intentions. Everything was color-coded. Everything was detail.

0:22.5

And then she said something that shocked me. She said, I'm doing all the right things,

0:27.1

but I still don't feel like the right person. And I thought, this is something that we need to talk about.

0:43.9

We need to talk about this more. We talked about this a little bit last week. We're going to dive in even more today because I think maybe you felt that too, like you're checking all the boxes,

0:49.4

but something deeper is missing. And here's what I told her and what I want to tell you today. The problem isn't

0:55.8

your plan. The problem is you're trying to do your way into a new life when what you really need is

1:01.8

to be your way into it. There's a massive difference between doing and becoming, between achieving and

1:08.6

transforming, between performing and evolving.

1:12.1

And if we're honest, most of us have spent years focused on the doing, the goals, the metrics,

1:16.8

the achievements, the checkboxes, right?

1:19.2

But what if 2026 wasn't about what you want to accomplish?

1:23.2

What if it was about who you want to become in the process?

1:27.0

Today we're diving even deeper into one of the most powerful questions you'll ask yourself all year.

1:32.2

Who am I becoming?

1:33.7

Not what am I achieving, not what am I fixing, but who am I becoming?

1:38.8

And is she the woman that I want to be?

1:41.5

Last week we started the conversation, and today we're going to take it to the next level. But before we get started, I want to be. Last week, we started the conversation, and today we're going to take it to the

1:44.6

next level. But before we get started, I want to tell you. Okay, let's dive in. I want to start with a

1:51.5

foundational truth. You don't rise to the level of your resolutions. You fall to the level of your

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