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Dad Tired

Where Discipleship Really Happens

Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes

Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Christianity, Parenting

4.91.4K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2026

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

Dadology Parenting Conference for Dads

Most of the discipleship we’ll ever do as fathers happens inside the four walls of our home.

In today’s Dad Tired Devotional, Jerrad reflects on how limited our hands-on time with our kids really is—and why that makes our homes sacred ground. He invites fathers into a simple, practical exercise: finding quiet time to walk through their home and pray over each space, each child, and their marriage.

This isn’t about fear or perfection. It’s about taking spiritual leadership seriously, inviting God’s presence into ordinary spaces, and recognizing that homes are often where the most important formation happens.

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Today's episode of this Dad Tired Devotional is brought to you by our Dadology Dad Conference in San Diego. Some of you guys are on the fence on this and you're going to miss the chance to get a good deal on a flight. Make sure that you go to Dadtire.com, click the Dadology Conference tab so you can learn more about how you can be poured into as a dad and show up more healed and whole for your family. Again, registration is going to

0:21.8

close soon. Make sure you grab your ticket by going to dadtire.com and click the parenting dadology

0:26.7

conference tab. I was sitting on the couch yesterday and Layla sent me this photo that she had found

0:32.6

online and it was essentially a graph that said 90% of the time that you will spend with your kids

0:38.9

happens within the first 18 years.

0:41.1

And then the graph just showed like a rapid decline.

0:43.9

Once your kids leave the house, your actual physical time with them diminishes rapidly.

0:49.6

Which, you know, I'm just trying to sit there and like watch the Super Bowl.

0:52.8

And now she's getting me all teary-eyed. Obviously, this isn't like a hard scientific number, but we can all

0:57.7

easily figure out that when your kids leave the house, your ability to disciple them, to guide them,

1:03.7

to model things for them, to do hands-on teaching, like all of that is going to go away rapidly,

1:10.0

significantly diminish.

1:11.5

So I was trying to think about where are the places that discipleship happens most with my kids.

1:16.1

And I think the car is one of them, drives to school and activities and road trips.

1:21.1

All of that provides great discipleship experience, although oftentimes it's chaotic and loud.

1:25.5

But I think the most obvious place that discipleship happens

1:28.1

is in your home. It's in the four walls that you eat and sleep, get ready, laugh. All of it happens

1:34.9

within these walls. And so something I've been praying, not even intentionally, like as we've

1:39.5

been praying around the table, as I've been praying with the kids, these words just kind of keep

1:43.1

coming out of my mouth. Again, I'm not intentionally thinking about it, but I just noticed myself praying this often. God, would your glory fill this house? Would your presence fill this house? Would there be nothing in this house that is not of you? And so today's episode, I just want to be like really, really practical here. This will likely be an episode that you can come back to and kind of listen

2:01.3

to slowly because I want to give you an exercise that you can do hopefully sometime in this coming

2:05.9

week. My challenge to you is to find a time where you can have alone time in the house. So

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