When you love the emotional abuser so much you won't leave
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 4 September 2019
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
When you are in love with the person mistreating you, is there a way to improve the relationship? Can you make them understand how much they're hurting you? And if you did, would it change the situation?
In this episode, I read an email from someone whose emotional abuse turned into physical abuse, but she doesn't want to leave him because she loves him so much.
Love and Abuse is the official podcast of The M.E.A.N. Workbook on manipulation and emotional abuse at loveandabuse.com. #loveandabuse
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to another episode of love and abuse. I am starting off this podcast with a quick message |
| 0:05.2 | before the episode starts because the topic I talk about in this episode is relating to a letter |
| 0:12.1 | that I received and I read the letter in the episode and then I respond to it. But the person |
| 0:18.6 | who wrote it wrote me back shortly after this episode was recorded. |
| 0:23.9 | So I received the email a few days ago. |
| 0:26.6 | I recorded the episode just yesterday. |
| 0:29.4 | And today I'm going to record something after this episode is done to tell you the follow-up |
| 0:35.7 | email that I received and my response to it after this episode |
| 0:39.8 | is done. So you're going to hear the episode start, go through the whole thing and end like a |
| 0:45.1 | normal episode, but I want you to stick around after the music is over and follow along as I read |
| 0:51.4 | the follow-up. So I have a chance to actually respond to it before this episode |
| 0:56.5 | goes live. So I want you to hear it. Here comes the episode now. Welcome to love and abuse, |
| 1:02.0 | the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. You deserve to be |
| 1:08.1 | treated with respect and kindness. That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior |
| 1:14.8 | so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 1:18.4 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 1:32.4 | Good to connect with you again. |
| 1:34.6 | Welcome to another episode of love and abuse. |
| 1:36.2 | If you're a brand new listener, |
| 1:49.3 | I want to let you know that this show was created mainly because people in toxic relationships have the hardest time identifying what's going on in the relationship, sometimes not even able to identify the symptoms of emotional |
| 1:56.8 | abuse and manipulation and control and all the other little nuances or negativity |
| 2:04.1 | that can appear in a toxic relationship. You can be in the toxic soup of a |
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