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U Up?

When Is the Right Time to Share Your Number?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 8 October 2025

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

J&J go virtual and Jordana recaps her time at a wedding and dives into the buzz around ZYN nicotine pouches, the Gen Z trend creeping into adult life. They dish on dating dilemmas like when a guy stalls intimacy and the tricky etiquette of phone number exchanges. Plus, they weigh in on dancing at weddings, and how not dancing can be seen as a turn off. During the red flag dealbreaker segment they learn about a guy who refuses to ever give gifts to couples, to which Jordana jokes, “If I ever married this guy, we would get no gifts!” They also tackle an icky or picky moment where a listener likes the guy, but can’t get past all that back hair! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:06.3

And I am Jared Freed. It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana. We are virtual today.

0:11.2

I'm coming to you live from La La Land, Los Angeles, and you are in the Long Island Kingdom.

0:20.1

How are you? What's going on? We just want to let people know for

0:22.4

YouTube and Spotify purposes. If you're watching, you can see we're in our little boxes.

0:28.9

How are you? We are remote today, but we never, we never miss an episode. So here we are.

0:33.6

Yet to miss one. I'm good. I'm good. I had a wedding. We had a wedding in upstate new york i saw you guys were dressed up i saw a couple selfies whose wedding how was it how was the food it was one of mike's friends from um from miami from college okay so it was it was kind of a drive it was like a four hour drive up there. So we stayed the night up there. It was fun. It was at a golf course, really beautiful views. I think men love a golf course view. Love. Love. Love a golf course view. I like the smell. I like an early morning golf course. I like a, like, I like getting on a golf course and going,

1:13.7

ah, just like, like, it feels like a full meal, you know? Yes, indeed. Yeah. So it was a, it was a golf course

1:23.1

course wedding. It was, uh, it was beautiful. It was a so like a country club wedding. Great teacher. Wasn't a country club exactly. It was, it was beautiful. It was a, so like a country club wedding.

1:28.4

It wasn't a country club exactly. It was like Saratoga National Golf.

1:34.3

Oh, Saratoga is like a wedding place. Like so. Saratoga Springs. Yeah, I've been up there.

1:40.8

That's like where the horse races are. It's like a very, yes. It's kind of a party town, Saratoga, New York. I've been to a wedding up there at a horse stable of sorts. It's beautiful. It's all, yeah, it's like, it feels like the town is Weddingville and that's what you do there. Right.

2:01.3

And you were saying it's like, it's funny because like, I mean, I didn't do this, but they were people who went out until like four in the morning to the bars after. It's a party town. Like there's a. Right. I'm like, well, they close at 4 a.m. New York bar. Well, this is like so random. This is kind of a pre-pandemic thing where New York City, 4 a.m. was the bar closing time.

2:22.3

And then, you know, less bars do it now.

2:25.8

But 4 a.m. was a New York City thing.

2:29.2

But then what would happen is you would go to like another town in the state of New York where they

2:36.2

share the rules with New York City.

2:38.8

And some of these towns would be like, it's 4 a.m.

2:42.0

We can do it here.

2:43.3

And Saratoga Springs is one of those areas that kind of like has a party thing going on

2:49.3

that like you could be at a bar until 4 a.m. there just because

2:53.2

they're getting the New York City rules and allowances because they're in New York State.

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