When Is She Ready For Sex? #712
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 January 2025
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of understanding readiness for penetrative sex.
What are the biological markers, communication cues, and the emotional aspects necessary for enjoyable sex for her? And for him?
How does this apply particularly in the context of pain and trauma?
Our conversation highlights the need for both spouses to be attuned to each other's bodies and desires, fostering a deeper connection and understanding in their sexual relationship.
Takeaways
Understanding readiness for penetrative sex involves both partners.
Biological markers include physical signs of arousal.
Communication is key in understanding each other's readiness.
Emotional and mental readiness is as important as physical readiness.
Pain and trauma can affect sexual experiences and readiness.
Exploring one's own body enhances sexual experiences.
Both partners should be aware of their own and each other's bodies.
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| 0:00.0 | So as we jump into the show today, we had an event, I guess you could say, they got some good data points that's worth starting today's episode with Welcome Sexy Marriage Radio, by the way. I'm Dr. Allen alongside my wife, Pam. But we, when we moved into the new house, we've been sleep number bed fans for over two decades. |
| 0:23.8 | Yeah. |
| 0:24.2 | And so we got a new one that now tracks more. |
| 0:27.4 | And you get more data points apparently. |
| 0:29.3 | Smart beds, beds. |
| 0:31.0 | And so in the app, it gives you a sleep score. |
| 0:33.8 | Yeah. |
| 0:34.7 | And you get an average over the last 20 days or however long you want to set it up to be. Yeah. Yeah. And you get an average over the last 20 days, 30 days or however long you want to set it up to be. |
| 0:41.0 | Yeah. It's been two months now. Yeah. And so it tracks all this data. And what's your average sleep score for the last 30 days? |
| 0:49.7 | My average sleep score is 82. Okay. Mine's 80. So she's currently, you got the lead right now. |
| 0:55.8 | Okay. |
| 0:56.0 | This is a competition by any way. |
| 0:58.2 | But after a particularly fun night sexually with you, we both had really high sleep scores. |
| 1:07.8 | Yeah, I don't usually check my sleep score. |
| 1:10.1 | Corey came in and said, hey, what's your |
| 1:15.0 | sleep score from last night? I had a notification saying, mine was really good. I had a notification |
| 1:20.5 | saying last night, you scored really high, which I would say doubly so. |
| 1:28.7 | Didn't. |
| 1:31.2 | I was in 96 that night. |
| 1:32.1 | I hit a 97. |
| 1:34.9 | So, hey, that was pretty nice. |
| 1:37.0 | But it's just interesting to think about, |
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