Best Of SMR Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #711

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🗓️ 15 January 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

In this conversation pulled from the vault, we revisit a conversation with John Eldredge as we discuss the impact of busyness and unhealed trauma on relationships.

John brings up the concept of inner ages and how unresolved childhood trauma can surface in adult relationships. It is important to create space for our younger selves and having honest conversations about the needs and fears that arise.

We also discuss the fragility of the world and how it can affect individuals and relationships.
Learn more from John here - https://wildatheart.org/

Takeaways

Busyness can take a toll on relationships, leading to a lack of leisure time and personal well-being.
Unhealed childhood trauma can resurface in adult relationships, causing emotional challenges and conflicts.
Tuning into inner ages and understanding the needs of younger selves can help navigate relationship dynamics.
Honesty and open communication about fears and needs can foster intimacy and understanding in relationships.

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0:00.0	Well, while we're in the midst of a studio build out for in the new house and working to get more content heading towards YouTube, it's fun because there was a great conversation I got to have today with our 17-year-old because he came into the office
0:21.6	while I was working and he saw one of the pieces of decoration, I guess you would say,
0:28.0	that's in the office, which is a 3D print of the female organ that is the clitoris.
0:35.7	Yeah.
0:36.2	And so he grabbed it and was like, what is this 3D printed? Yeah. What is it? It's the clitoris. Yeah. And so he grabbed it and was like, what is this 3D printed?
0:39.4	Yeah.
0:39.7	What is it?
0:40.5	It's the clitoris.
0:42.5	Oh.
0:43.7	Slowly sets it back on the shelf.
0:46.3	But what was fun then is that then it turned into a real pointed, honest, in-depth
0:53.6	conversation.
0:54.9	Yeah.
0:55.3	Did he ask you a question?
0:57.4	Like, what is it?
0:58.2	He's like, so, okay, what is this exactly for then?
1:01.8	What exactly does it do?
1:04.3	And I was like, well, here you go, buddy.
1:05.9	And we just had a nice little conversation about it.
1:08.8	Because when you compare him to our daughter, it's opposites
1:13.4	on interest of what we talk about in a willingness and an openness about ourselves and
1:21.5	themselves and people.
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