Hey guys. Welcome back to Heal Survive and Thrive. We are going to tackle something really important today.

We're going to talk about this notion that people sometimes have when they're single and they're just worried

that there just ain't any good guys left. There ain't any good girls left. There's no more good

one. They're all taken. People will really struggle with this when you're wondering if all the

good guys or good girls are taken and you're single, maybe you've been single for a while. And look, I hear you.

It's a common concern to have, especially in this day and age. But today, I'm sorry, I'm going to

challenge that. We're going to have a little therapy, a little coaching session, and we're going to

dive deep into that right now. First off, I'm going to get short and sweet and to the point here.

This notion that the pool is getting smaller, it's ridiculous. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I hate to

bust your bubble. I hate to just like state the obvious. Okay, stuff, I knew you're going to say that,

but it literally doesn't make any sense. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that all the great

ones are snatched up, leaving, honestly, just the rest to be a bunch of like slim pickings. I get

it. The fear of missing out on someone amazing I know is real and people really struggle with

this and that's why we're going to talk about it

today. And I know it's something that keeps people super stuck because they are already going,

you know, they've already gone through experiences and have felt this defeat. They know what it

feels like to be let down. Maybe they've been in a relationship and went through a

really painful situation. Maybe they've gone on so many flipping dates that it's like not even

funny or they just don't ever meet like quality people. So I totally understand why your mind

sometimes will come up with these. The pool's getting smaller.

You're getting older.

You know, the first thing that I want you to look at,

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