When a relationship is not a relationship

Love and Abuse

Paul Colaianni

Relationships, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.7 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 26 March 2025

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

"Everything's great with me," they say, as you sit there staring, confused, wondering what the hell you're missing because you're having a completely different experience as them. When is a relationship not an actual relationship anymore?

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0:00.0	Welcome to love and abuse, the show about navigating the difficult relationship, from simple disagreements to emotionally abusive behaviors.
0:08.2	You deserve respecting kindness.
0:10.5	All the information on this show is meant for educational purposes only.
0:14.0	Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being and always pick your battles wisely.
0:19.2	I'm your host, Paul Koliani.
0:28.1	If one of you says that things are going great and the other one says, no, they're not, then they're not.
0:33.5	If one person in the relationship says,
0:36.1	things are fine, what's the problem?
0:39.0	And the other person says, I'm having these challenges.
0:43.4	I'm upset.
0:44.6	I'm unhappy.
0:45.5	I'm sad.
0:47.3	Or I'm confused.
0:50.3	And the other person says, you shouldn't be confused.
0:53.4	There's nothing to be confused about. There's nothing to worry confused. There's nothing to be confused about.
0:55.3	There's nothing to worry about.
0:56.5	There's nothing to be upset about.
0:58.2	What's your problem?
1:00.5	Then there's a problem.
1:02.7	There's a problem in the relationship.
1:05.8	I had somebody write to me and say, I'm having an issue with my wife.
1:09.5	I'm seeing behaviors of threatening verbal abuse,
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