I'm sure that if you're married and have kids you've had moments where you and

your spouse have a somewhat different approach to parenting. You're not seeing

eye to eye and it can be a very uncomfortable feeling. I'm John

Fuller along with Dr. Danny where to who heads up our parenting team here at

the ministry and Danny it's pretty common I'm guessing for parents to be on different pages when it comes to the

kids.

Oh yeah yeah it's it's very very common and can be difficult because sometimes one child

connects better with one parent, whereas maybe they're just not connecting

with you.

And for parents, that could bring out some insecurity around rejection that you've struggled

with.

And there's some healthy reasons and there's some unhealthy. struggled with

and there's some healthy reasons and there's some unhealthy reasons why a child

may be attaching more with one parent than the other

or just responding more to one parent.

You know, yeah, I can feel like, uh, what's Dina doing?

I mean, why am I the guy that's out of favor here?

You can love me.

So I guess that's my own insecurity isn't it it can be but you know you

you have to figure it is is one parent more soft than the other and the child

can get away with things and it's you're fostering more selfishness in your child or is it

that personality connects better? Okay. Could be that. Or what about the child

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