What Your Dating Experiences Are Trying to Tell You
Cultivating H.E.R. Space: Uplifting Conversations for the Black Woman
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🗓️ 27 February 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
Hey lady! Are you ready to go big in your love life? If you’re ready to make changes that reflect the woman you are today then you’ll definitely want to tune in because Terri and Dr. Dom are dropping gems and spilling tea to help you improve the way you vet your romantic prospects.
Lady, by now you’ve heard “choose better” when attempting to find respect and companionship but do you know exactly what that means? Terri and Dr. Dom offer seven questions to ask while dating that will help you make your next decision from a grounded place.
Whether you are looking for a good time, not a long time or ready to find your forever person, let this episode you guide you as you engage from a place of personal power, deep self-respect, and high self-regard.
Now, you know this wouldn’t be a Cultivating H.E.R. Space episode if we didn’t help guide you into introspective work that will help you identify what you’re looking for in a partner and what you are bringing to the relationship. None of us are perfect and we’re all working on aspects of ourselves so head to the Cultivating H.E.R. Space shop and grab a journal so that you can answer the questions that will help you clearly assess where you are in your process so that you can get the love you deserve!
And, lady we promised you tea. Join Patreon so you can hear Dr. Dom and Terri spill it. It’s hot, hot, hot in the Aftershow!
Questions You Can Ask to Reveal Someone’s Character
- “What did your last relationship teach you about yourself?”
- “What does a healthy relationship look like to you?”
- “What are you currently working on within yourself?”
- “How do you typically handle conflict?”
- “What are your non-negotiables in relationships?”
- “What brings you peace in your life right now?”
- “What kind of partner do you want to be?”
Quote of the Day:
“Every person you date reflects something back to you—not to judge you, but to show you where you’ve healed, where you’re still growing, and where you’re ready to choose differently.”
– Unknown
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| 0:00.0 | On this week's episode of cultivating her space. |
| 0:04.8 | If they've told me ABC and D or how they want to show up as a partner and they're not doing those things, that's an opportunity to seek clarity. |
| 0:15.3 | Because if they're saying they're not willing to do those things with you, but they know that those are what they want to do as a partner, you ain't it, boo. It's time to move on because they don't want you as a partner. |
| 0:28.3 | Hey lady, have you ever felt like the world just doesn't get you? Well, we do. |
| 0:36.6 | Welcome to cultivating her space, the podcast dedicated to uplifting and empowering women like you. |
| 0:43.3 | We're your host, Dr. Dominique Broussard, an educator and psychologist, and Terry Lomax, a techie and transformational speaker. |
| 0:51.8 | Join us every week for authentic conversations about everything from fibroids to fake friends |
| 0:58.7 | as we create space for black women to just be. |
| 1:04.8 | Before we dive in, make sure you hit that follow button and leave us a quick five-star review. |
| 1:09.6 | Lady, we are black founded and black |
| 1:11.7 | owned and your support will help us reach even more women like you. Now, let's get into this |
| 1:18.0 | week's episode of Cultivating HerSpace. It's Dr. Dom here from the Cultivating HerSpace podcast. |
| 1:26.3 | Are you currently a resident of the state of California |
| 1:29.6 | in contemplating starting your therapy journey? Well, if so, please reach out to me at |
| 1:36.8 | Dr. Dominiquebroussar.com. That's D-R-D-O-M-I-N-I-Q-U-E-B-R-O-U-S-S-A-R-O-U-S-A-R-D.com to schedule a free 15-minute consultation. |
| 1:55.0 | I look forward to hearing from you. |
| 1:57.3 | Our quote of the day, |
| 2:00.1 | every person you date reflects something back to you, not to judge you, |
| 2:06.5 | but to show you where you've healed, where you're still growing, and where you're ready to choose |
| 2:12.7 | differently. |
| 2:14.4 | Ooh, lady, that was a mouthful. |
| 2:16.9 | And I need to say it again for the folks in the back to make sure we all heard it. |
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