What will it take to finally get them to stop?
Love and Abuse
Paul Colaianni
4.6 • 816 Ratings
🗓️ 7 December 2022
⏱️ 33 minutes
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Summary
The person that hurts the one they love can do the behavior indefinitely unless someone is there to stop it. Usually, that someone has to be you. Stopping it however doesn't always come easy. Sometimes the person hurting you needs a wake-up call they can't ignore, shaking their foundation so much they have to pay attention.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior. |
| 0:07.4 | You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. |
| 0:10.9 | That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity. |
| 0:18.6 | I'm your host, Paul Koliani. |
| 0:31.2 | Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliani. Welcome to another episode of love and abuse. It's been a while. All the information on this show is meant for educational |
| 0:38.8 | purposes only, always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being, and always |
| 0:43.4 | pick your battles wisely. I say it's been a while because if you are subscribed to this show, |
| 0:49.6 | you haven't heard from me in months. What's going on? I have been working on a program to help abusive people. |
| 0:59.4 | As you've probably heard before, it's called healed being. I created the mean workbook, |
| 1:05.3 | the victims of emotional abuse, read that, and they get to pinpoint exactly what's going on |
| 1:10.8 | in their relationship and |
| 1:11.8 | decide what steps they're going to take next. And then I have the other program, Healed Being, |
| 1:17.7 | which is the other side of the coin, helping people who want to stop hurting those they love. |
| 1:23.8 | And it took me a while to finalize everything in that program. I'm finally, finally done. |
| 1:29.3 | So the program's been available for a while, but that's what I've been doing. I've been working on |
| 1:35.3 | that to help everyone that listens to this show. Most of the people that listen to this show |
| 1:41.4 | are victims of something, control, manipulation, toxic behavior, and emotional abuse, all of that wrapped into one big bucket. |
| 1:53.6 | And also the abusive people, the hurtful people, the ones that may or may not want to hurt. |
| 1:59.9 | Yes, there are people that do want to hurt |
| 2:01.9 | others and they want to stop. Those people who listen to this show, they want to stop. I'm |
| 2:08.5 | hoping they want to stop. Not everyone that listens to this show wants to stop. In fact, the person |
| 2:14.7 | I was many years ago didn't want to stop because I really, really believed I was right. |
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