The battles that drain your power

Love and Abuse

Paul Colaianni

Mental Health, Lies, Emotional, Health & Fitness, Psychological, Society & Culture, Deception, Manipulation, Narcissism, Verbal, Abuse, Relationships

4.6 • 816 Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2022

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

The emotionally abusive relationship can be a battle. In fact, it can be a series of battles that wear you down and eventually wear you out. But at what point are you so worn out that you do something different? Some toxic relationships last for decades and there is no end in sight. There's a point in time when something has to change, or nothing ever will. And that can be a hard pill to swallow.

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0:00.0	Welcome to Love and Abuse, the show about helping you identify poisonous communication and toxic behavior.
0:07.4	You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.
0:10.9	That's why it's important that you learn to pinpoint manipulative and controlling behavior so that you keep your power and your sanity.
0:18.6	I'm your host, Paul Koliani.
0:31.5	Thank you. power and your sanity. I'm your host, Paul Koliati. Hello, welcome to this show. My name is Paul, as I stated in the intro.
0:36.4	Glad you are here.
0:40.4	All the information on the show is meant for educational purposes only.
0:43.4	Always seek a professional for your mental health and well-being.
0:46.2	And always pick your battles wisely.
1:00.0	And that is going to be somewhat of the topic today because there are battles in relationships that occur that repeat themselves over and over again.
1:08.5	And those battles are based on what you will and won't accept in your life.
1:14.0	They're based on your personal boundaries. And there's a lot of people that write to me and tell me that they are facing extreme challenges. I mean, these people are
1:20.8	facing really abusive situations. Most people that listen to this show are facing some sort of
1:26.8	abusive situation or, as you may or may not know, abusive people listen to this show as well.
1:34.8	And I don't really hate categorizing anyone.
1:37.8	I don't want to call one person the victim and the other person, the abuser.
1:42.3	It's not that at all.
1:43.6	I do that often to make it easier to talk about, so I don't have to use all these different
1:48.9	terms.
1:49.9	It's just for brevity, but don't accept those as labels that define you.
1:55.8	They are just to help me talk about a subject.
1:58.9	So when you hear me use labels like that, it is not necessarily to label
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