I once heard someone say to me,

don't ever compare your inside to someone else's outside. Very good. And that's excellent advice for the individual, but certainly for marriage. That's huge, and I felt like I had to fit in that box. That was, I went in with this mindset like, okay, well, now I have to do this, and I have to do this, and I have to dress this way, and I have to fit into this Catholic mold, because mold because frankly I went in so handicap. It was a challenge, you know, just a few weeks I would say, you know, into the marriage. You know, we start having disagreements and realize like, okay, take care of the stuff that you need to take care of before you get into marriage and think instead of thinking that marriage is a car wash that like this is a magical ring and you put it on and like your Frodo and you can just do all this brand new stuff. I think you're the best wife and husband until you're actually become one. I mean it's like putting hydrogen peroxide on a wound, it starts fizzing pretty good. Because I was struggling so much in marriage and I didn't know what was going on. I didn't know why I was always so angry and I was just like, oh, all the time. But on the outside to everyone, I had it together. I had that Instagram perfect thing going on, right? But man, I shut the door and I'd be a mess. But my message was still relevant. I didn't lie because it's never too late to start over. I did have a horrible I had this huge conversion. And that was my mission when I first started speaking about Chastity,

just screaming to the rooftops to young women.

Like, it doesn't matter who you are, where you've been,

what you've done.

All that matters is where you go from here.

Like, God can restore you, can start over.

You are worthy of love, right? no matter what's happened to you.

Goody, everybody. Matt Frad here. The reason I am sitting in the middle of this table is I am

interviewing two beautiful people, Jason and Kristina Everett.

This is the first time we've done three people in one interview.

And it was an amazing interview.

I truly believe this will be maybe one of the most important interviews I've done for a long time.

And it's going to be, it's going to bring about great comfort and healing especially to

married couples especially those in difficult marriages this was a very vulnerable and intimate

interview it'll also be a blessing to those who are looking toward marriage so watch it and

please share it not for my sake but for the sake of those who are looking toward marriage. So watch it and please share it. Not for my sake,

but for the sake of those who might stumble across it. I really, you'll see what I mean

when we jump into this. Before we go any further, many of you have been subscribing to the channel

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So if you haven't done that yet, please click subscribe and the bell button because it really helps us out. God bless. Jason and Kristina Everett, this is wonderful to have you. Thanks for happiness. It's good to be back. So I always tell this story, but I'll never tire of it. I had just met my wife maybe for three days,

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