Today on the Shalene Show, we're going to talk about what success actually feels like

and a whole new way to think about goal setting.

Welcome to the Shalene Show. Shalene has helped thousands with her books, seminars,

and online academies. She's the author of the New York Times bestselling book push in a mother of two.

So we're going to talk about success today. And you know, that term success, it's a fun

thing. A lot of people, when they hear the word success, they think of cars and bank accounts,

and white picket fences and families and children and kind of like having it all.

So let me first state that success is your definition. Let me read you some definitions of success.

Success is achievement. Achievement of a desired result or an outcome or gaining prosperity or

succeeding in reaching your goals. Some would say that happiness is the key to success.

Others might argue that the definition of success is to gain fame or wealth. Success is about

significance or serving others. Some might say that success is as simple as doing the best that you

can with what you have every single day. Winston Churchill said success is going from failure to

failure without loss of enthusiasm. Muhammad Ali said my strength did not come from lifting weights.

My strength came from lifting myself when I was knocked down. And this quote by Ariana Huffington,

success is commonly defined as money and power. But increasingly, that's not enough.

It's almost like a two-legged stool where you fall over if that's all that you measure your life by.

And lastly, Tony Robbins success is doing what you want when you want where you want with whom you want

as much as you want. That definition right there, I have to say amen to that. That is my personal

definition of success. What I wanted you to take away from that is how many different and varied

definitions of success there are. And you need your very own. What does success mean to you?

What does it look like? What does it feel like? How would you define it? How would you know if you

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