What’s Really Behind Your Booty Call?
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.8 • 2.9K Ratings
🗓️ 23 January 2017
⏱️ 6 minutes
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Summary
Should you be ashamed of The Booty Call? If you’re just having fun, and you’re really ok with a casual fling, then I say, go for it. The problem is, there’s often more going on behind this so-called “arrangement” – feelings, expectations, unexpressed hopes…and emotional issues that run very deep. Who’s to blame when the balance of power goes awry? And what should you do if you decide you want more? We unravel this sticky entanglement in today’s LOVE Life, and I help you decide if your Booty Call really makes you happy, or if you should hang up on him for good.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello everybody, this is Matthew Hussie with Love Life. I have an incredible show for you today, |
| 0:06.0 | but I want to make sure you listen right to the end because I'm going to give you a special gift, |
| 0:11.0 | a full proof way to become the most intriguing woman in any man's life and you're not going to want to miss it. |
| 0:21.0 | Today we are talking about the Booty Cool. |
| 0:23.0 | Now I know that many people try and cover up times when they go for a Booty Cool, |
| 0:29.0 | because they're somewhat ashamed of it. And the question I'm posing today is to what extent should we be ashamed of the Booty Cool? |
| 0:37.0 | And I want to first list the types of people that are involved in a Booty Cool. |
| 0:42.0 | The first type of person is, let's be brutal, the person that wants the other person for sex, |
| 0:50.0 | but doesn't really want them enough for a relationship. |
| 0:54.0 | They see this person as, well you know what, they'll do for now, I'll just keep going with this for the moment. |
| 1:03.0 | Person 2 is the person that wants more, but doesn't know how to ask for it, or has asked for it, |
| 1:10.0 | and that person has said, no, I don't want more, so now they settled for the Booty Cool. |
| 1:15.0 | The third type of person is the person who has for some emotional reason an issue with people getting too close. |
| 1:23.0 | They don't want to make themselves vulnerable, they don't want to get into a meaningful relationship, |
| 1:28.0 | because they're scared, they find a Booty Cool is that halfway point between never opening up and opening up completely |
| 1:35.0 | and making yourself really vulnerable. So here's my question to you. |
| 1:39.0 | If you're in that situation right now where the Booty Cool is part of your life, which one of those three are you? |
| 1:46.0 | Here's the thing, most guys would put themselves in the category of, I don't really want more with this person, |
| 1:54.0 | but it's good for now, it's good for sex, it's good to fill a need. A lot of guys fall into that category. |
| 2:00.0 | There are certainly women who fall into this category as well, but women aren't validated by sex in the same way that guys are. |
| 2:07.0 | You know, when people talk about, well men and women are the same with sex. |
| 2:11.0 | It's also absolutely not true when was the last time you heard a woman go, you'll never guess how many guys I've slept with this week. |
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