What’s Hiding In Your Relationship? with Dr. Gabor Maté and Daniel Maté

Commune with Jeff Krasno

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Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.6 • 654 Ratings

🗓️ 17 September 2024

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Did you know there are four people in every relationship? Who you are. Who they are. Who you think they are. Who they think you are. This excerpt from Dr. Gabor and Daniel Maté’s online workshop, Starting Fresh, is focused on helping parents and adult children transform stuck dynamics — but their wisdom applies to all relationships.

Watch an additional 90-minute preview of this course at onecommune.com/startfresh or get both of Gabor’s Commune courses – Starting Fresh and A Return to Wholeness – with a 14-day trial of Commune Membership at onecommune.com/trial.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Commune podcast. My name is Jeff Krasno.
0:09.2	Today's episode with Dr. Gabor Mate and his son, Daniel Mate, is an excerpt from their recently
0:15.5	released Commune course titled Starting Fresh.
0:19.8	This 10-part workshop offers a framework for parents and adult
0:24.5	children to transform stuck dynamics in their relationship, though the wisdom is certainly relevant
0:31.8	to all relationships. In particular, today Gabor and Daniel dig into the idea of a working theory.
0:40.7	This is a distorted view of the other person in the relationship, or your role in the relationship,
0:48.4	that in turn distorts the entire relationship. Now, as you will hear them describe,
0:53.6	there are really four people in
0:55.9	every relationship. One, who you are, two, who they are, three, who you think they are, and four,
1:04.5	who you think you are. With this self-reflection, you can start to identify your working theory
1:10.7	about the other person,
1:12.4	which in turn helps you change the automatic knee-jerk ways you may have been dealing with them.
1:19.3	And this is really, really powerful stuff.
1:21.4	In fact, we recorded this workshop with a live audience,
1:25.2	and the transformations in the group were so powerful that we created a 90-minute documentary
1:32.3	that weaves together their stories with wisdom from the program.
1:36.3	So I highly encourage you to go to onecommune.com forward slash start fresh to watch this video. I really can't recommend it highly enough.
1:48.0	That's onecom.com forward slash start fresh. Or you can get both of Gabbor's commune courses
1:55.6	starting fresh and a return to wholeness with a 14-day trial of commune membership at onecom
2:03.5	forward slash trial.
2:05.4	Okay, here's Gabour and Daniel in conversation with the workshop audience at Commune Topanga.
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