What Makes for Great Sex?
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.7 • 885 Ratings
🗓️ 13 June 2025
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
On this podcast, we're not focused on just having sex. We want wives to experience great sex. But how do we define that? Today, we're diving into what makes for great sex in marriage and how to get there.
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From the Bible
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23
Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10
Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. 1 Peter 3:3–4
I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 1 Timothy 2:1–2 (just a comparison of the same word in Greek translated quiet, also translated sometimes as tranquil)
Resources
- Episode 195: Explaining Women's Sexual Response
- Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar Replay (only $5 for a limited time!)
- Be His Porn Star? Here's the Problem... | Intimacy in Marriage (Bonny thought it was J, but it's from the other Julie!)
- He Wants a Wild-Cat in Bed. That's Not Me. • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- Love (and Sex in Marriage) Is Not Self-Seeking - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- Understanding Her Sex Drive – Webinar Replay (only $5 for a limited time!)
- Episode 43: Dealing with Sexual Baggage
- Dealing with Sexual Baggage | The Forgiven Wife
- Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade
- Episode 186: Speak Up! (Quickie)
- Wives, Your Voice Matters (in the Bedroom & Beyond) - Hot, Holy & Humorous
- 5 Thoughts to Feel Great About Yourself and Improve Your Sexual Interest • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- One Step Forward | The Forgiven Wife
- Healthy Marriage, Healthy Sex Life (the One-Another Series) • Bonny's Oysterbed7
- Healthy Marriages Start with Healthy People - Hot, Holy & Humorous
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives
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Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Is your sex drive M.I.A. While your spouse is always ready to go? Or maybe you're the one |
| 0:05.8 | feeling stuck in second gear while they've hit the brakes. Well, you're not broken and you're |
| 0:11.5 | definitely not alone. Join Chris, Jay, and Bonnie for the first of a new upcoming Table Talk |
| 0:17.8 | Masterclass series. The first master class we're offering is sexual desire |
| 0:23.1 | differences, understanding and navigating a mismatch in the sheets. We'll unpack why mismatched |
| 0:28.9 | desires are common in marriage, what it really means, and how to stop feeling like it's a |
| 0:33.8 | battlefield in the bedroom. God designed intimacy to be a place of connection, |
| 0:38.3 | not confusion. So let's learn how to meet each other there in connection with grace, |
| 0:43.9 | understanding, and maybe even a little laughter. This will be a safe, honest, faith-centered space. |
| 0:50.5 | So come for the truth and stay for the hope. Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives, where three marriage |
| 0:57.9 | bloggers discuss the naked truth. What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages? |
| 1:03.8 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. And I'm Jay Parker of Hot, Holy, and Humorous. |
| 1:11.8 | Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 1:16.3 | Welcome back to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. |
| 1:18.7 | On this podcast, we're not focused on just having sex. |
| 1:22.8 | We want wives to experience great sex. |
| 1:25.6 | But how do we define that? |
| 1:27.2 | Today, we're diving into what makes for |
| 1:29.1 | great sex in marriage and how to get there. All right, ladies, before we define what we mean by |
| 1:34.2 | great sex, let's talk about what others say makes for a particularly good sexual encounter. |
| 1:40.1 | Well, I would say that one of the biggest ones is a good orgasm. And yes, there is such a thing as a bad orgasm, but that's one definition. |
| 1:51.2 | And I'd add on to that that it includes simultaneous orgasm. |
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