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Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Episode 227: Mindful Connection with Your Body After Trauma (Quickie)

Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Chris Taylor

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7885 Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2025

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with the last of her kegels series about connecting with your body after trauma.

You can find the first two quickies of the series here:

Episode 215: Kegels and Sexual Pleasure (Quickie)

Episode 219: Kegels and Climax (Quickie)

Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Bonnie Burns with another sex chat Quickey. Today I'm offering the final installment in our

0:10.2

Quicky Kegel miniseries. By now, I hope that you've come to realize the Kegel is a free,

0:16.9

simple, and versatile healing tool. Isn't God amazing in his design of our sexual health?

0:22.6

There is one challenge that I haven't mentioned yet that Kegels can address, and that's

0:28.1

healing from any trauma that may have disconnected you from your body. With Kegels, you have

0:34.0

choice and control. If you do feel you've reached a place in your recovery where you choose to safely start

0:40.8

reconnecting with your body, the kegels are a great first option.

0:45.3

Cagels can help you rebuild connection to your body.

0:48.5

Trauma can cause disconnection and cagles, when practiced mindfully and gently, can help you reengage with your pelvic region,

0:57.0

especially when trust with your body has been shaken. And remember, cagels don't have to be

1:02.1

sexually focused. Cagels also help with bladder continent, which is very important as we age.

1:09.0

Also, cagels help with strength and control. Strengthening the pelvic

1:13.7

floor gives you a sense of control over your body, which is often one of the first things to feel lost

1:19.9

during or after trauma. Kegles can help with pleasure and healing. Many survivors experience

1:25.9

numbness or pain during intimacy or touch. Cagels can

1:29.5

gently reinduce sensation and increase blood flow, potentially making intimacy feel more

1:35.5

comfortable and pleasurable again. And finally, the cagels are something you can choose to do.

1:41.8

They are safe and gradual. Starting with a small, gentle

1:46.1

kegel exercise can be a way of safely reclaiming your body's power without overwhelming

1:52.2

yourself. And because everyone's body does respond differently to trauma, I hope you'd consider

1:58.0

exploring whether the kegel would be beneficial for you with your sexual health

2:02.7

specialist or your trauma therapist.

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