I amla. I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my

relationships work. I have been divorced three times twice from the same person. In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships.

So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Welcome, welcome welcome, this is the Our Spot. I am Yonla and this is part two of a juicy, juicy, juicy conversation.

How bad girls become good and how good girls go bad, or flip it around. How do good girls go bad or flip it around how do good girls go bad and bad girls become good.

We started the conversation last week with my two guests beware and Stormy Wellington coach Stormy who is a

reform bad girl she helped me understand that I actually was a bad girl I didn't even know it but she helped me understand that I actually was a bad girl. I didn't even know it, but she helped me understand that.

And I can own it. I can own it because the good and

good and bad definition doesn't come from the world it comes from your heart and who you become and when you look back and saw who you were

What do you call that based on who you are today? Well in this episode we are going to do a deep dive

into the complexities of the good girl and the bad girl personas because it is a persona. It's not the truth.

It's a part of an experience and may be your history. But at all times in all situations you have the power to change to transform.

Can a bad girl be reformed into a good girl and again who's defining good and bad. I'm going to be joined today

again by my two guests beware Van Zand, some relationship and Coach Stormy Wellington, a reformed bad girl.

And we're going to unpack these questions.

Some of them that I'm really interested in, can a man take as his wife, a reformed bad girl?

Can that happen? I mean, can he, whether she was on the pole or on the corner, whether she was a gold digger?

Well, a man marry a woman who acknowledges her past, her history.

And how exactly does a good girl go bad?

What makes that happen?

And finally, how does a bad girl do the work that's required?

To reform, to transform?

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