Great relationships are an accumulation of little efforts over time.

And the more you do it, the more you don't have to do the big grant.

The big grand things are a nice bonus, but you don't have to do them

because you're a partner or your friend or your lover or whatever is aware

of what a lovely kind, considerate, interesting person you are the rest of the time.

What's the point of living a life outside of work anyway, Steve?

I mean, I don't remember what it's like.

You look lovely, Steve. I'm excited about this. I'll let you do the intro

and you can just take it away.

OK. Well, we're in the room right away going hot with Matthew Hussey and me,

Stephen Hussey. Welcome back to the Love Life podcast.

Matthew, you old romantic sausage.

Um, there's my nickname.

I think a people have been enjoying us to have people, people been sending you messages

saying, I really like these episodes you're doing together.

You really, you're really a needy guy, aren't you?

You're always asking if people are sending messages in.

I actually, I'm never asking.

The only time I ever ask is when we're on the podcast and maybe if you did a bit more of the, you know,

hey, what's the community said? What's the temperature? What's the feedback?

What are our listeners? You know, if you brought in a bit more of that, I wouldn't even need to ask.

Well, listeners, you can send us your feedback at

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