Don’t Get Into Another Relationship Before You HEAR THIS
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 24 February 2021
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Summary
Want to hear something that drives me a little crazy?
It’s when people say: “You need to be happy first, before you find a relationship.” In my brand spanking new video, I call BS on this idea (please be aware there is no actual spanking).
Come on over and I’ll tell you why all the annoying people telling you this are wrong.
P.S. We’re one month out from my next Virtual Retreat, March 19-21!
This could be your last chance to make it happen. The first one back in October was a huge success, and I’ve been working with my team for months to make this one even better.
It includes 3 days of immersion coaching to work on new habits, new purpose in your life, leveling up in every area, and becoming the most confident and in control version of yourself you’ve ever been.
This is NOT a love life program—it’s a complete life makeover, inside and out.
If you don’t have your ticket yet, there’s still time.
To book a call with one of my Specialists to discuss your goals this year and whether the Virtual Retreat is right for you, click HERE → http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com
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| 0:00.0 | Happy enough. |
| 0:05.0 | And happy enough is a more modest goal than blissfully happy, enlightened, 100% fulfilled in your life. |
| 0:13.0 | Happy enough allows you to be strong. |
| 0:16.0 | Happy enough, in fact, is a kind of invincibility. |
| 0:33.0 | Before we even get into the video today, we have our virtual retreat coming up on the 19th to the 21st of March. |
| 0:40.0 | If you haven't got a ticket yet, if you like what we do here, if you want a much bigger journey than just simply focusing on your dating life, if you come to me because you like my life advice, because you want to be more fulfilled in your life happier, have more direction, you want to make a change, you have deeper confidence issues, you want to work on my three day virtual retreat is three days of immersion coaching and it's coming up on the 19th to the 21st of March. |
| 1:06.0 | If you're tickets here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, one of those places will probably be a link. Let's begin. |
| 1:13.0 | Let me ask you a question. When people say you have to be happy before you meet somebody, before you find a relationship, you have to be complete, you have to be fulfilled. |
| 1:26.0 | Does any part of that great on you? Because it does for me. It's hard enough, by the way, to be on your own, when you want to find someone without being then kicked in the head with, you know, you really need to be happy before you find someone. |
| 1:43.0 | Usually said to us by someone who's in a relationship, who wasn't happy when they met someone, whose life did get better by meeting someone. |
| 1:51.0 | So I have some good news for you today. You don't need to be happy before you find a relationship. You just need to be happy enough. |
| 2:01.0 | And I actually think happy enough is a concept that will service everywhere in our lives. So for those of you who don't want dating advice in this video, and you want some advice that you can use everywhere, you're going to get two for one. Everyone's going to be happy with this one. |
| 2:15.0 | Happy enough. Why is happy enough so important? Because you want to be happy enough that you don't settle for the wrong thing. |
| 2:25.0 | You want to be happy enough that if you find the right thing, but that person ends up treating you badly, you can walk away from it. |
| 2:33.0 | You want to be happy enough that the right thing doesn't become your everything. That to me is what happy enough means. |
| 2:42.0 | So whilst we may have aspirations in our life to be the happiest we can be, the most fulfilled we can be, in the meantime, how do we make ourselves happy enough that we make great choices? |
| 2:55.0 | Here are the three components to being happy enough. |
| 2:59.0 | Three circles, the form of a Venn diagram. These three circles, when they all intersect, create happy enough. |
| 3:15.0 | One part is your communication. If you think about it, all of the get the guide programs that I've created over the years are about creating great communication. |
| 3:24.0 | How do you, with the person you're trying to attract, communicate your value? How do you communicate your needs? And how do you communicate your standards and expectations? |
| 3:34.0 | Once you've learnt this language, you'll always know how to handle situations good or bad in your love life or indeed in any of your relationships. |
| 3:44.0 | So communication is a competence that we need to learn. |
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