I amla. I've been very open about the fact that I was not always good and making my

relationships work. I have been divorced three times twice from the same person. In other words, I have seen a lot and failed a lot in my relationships.

So I am here to share with you what I learned along the way because I did take copious notes.

Welcome to the R-Spot, a production of Shandaland Audio in partnership with I-Heart Radio. I know this is probably going to rustle some people's feathers and that's okay.

We get caught up in the words, we get caught up in someone else's

interpretation of how we should live. But what I know to be true is God's Source Creator, whatever

you want to call it, to your heart and sometimes what comes up in your heart

totally contradicts the things we've been taught and I say there really is no disconnect about what you need

to do to honor yourself to take care of yourself and to be in alignment with the nature of your source,

follow your heart, follow your heart, particularly for women.

So I'm not telling anybody not to listen to the advice of their spiritual

supporter, their spiritual guide, please, the spiritual guide, their spiritual elders. I'm not saying that at all. But if something

don't make no sense to you, check your heart. And that's exactly what I'm telling my

next caller.

Check your heart, because that's where God is speaking.

Okay?

Greetings beloved and welcome to the R spot.

Thank you for calling in today and what is your relationship challenge issue dilemma

that we're gonna nibble on together?

So I am married for 17 years in the process of a divorce due to numerous

infidelities outside children. I had what broke the camel's pocket, it was a whole bunch of

them, but when a lady called me and asked for him on my cell phone, I said,

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