What Is Sexual Betrayal and How Can You Address It?
Sex Chat for Christian Wives
Chris Taylor
4.6 • 848 Ratings
🗓️ 16 August 2024
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
What is sexual betrayal? Have you experienced it? Today, we address the sensitive topic of sexual betrayal with honesty and compassion, relying quite a bit on our in-house expert, Bonny Burns.
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From the Bible
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:28
“For I hate divorce,” says the Lord, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with violence,” says the Lord of armies. “So be careful about your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16 (NASB)
I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Jeremiah 3:8a
John’s disciples came and took his body and buried it. Then they went and told Jesus. When Jesus heard what had happened, he withdrew by boat privately to a solitary place. Matthew 14:12-13a
Resources
- Strong Wives - Bonny's ministry
- Hope for Wives podcast: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal
- Betrayal Trauma (healthline.com)
- The Sarah Society
- Hope Redefined
- A Partner's Dilemma (apsats.org)
- Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- Episode 189: Myth-busting What You’ve Heard about Sex, with Gaye Christmus! - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
- Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature by Peter Scazzero
- The Search For Significance: Seeing Your True Worth Through God's Eyes by Robert McGee
Bonny's Heading to Australia & New Zealand!
- 9/6–9/7 - https://www.crossview.com.au/
- 9/14, 9/19 - https://www.prbc.org.au/
- 9/17 - https://www.newheartbaptist.com/
- 9/20–9/21 - https://genesisgc.com.au/
Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.
Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:
Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives, where three marriage bloggers discuss the naked truth. |
| 0:06.0 | What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriages? |
| 0:09.7 | I'm Bonnie Burns of Strong Wives. |
| 0:12.6 | I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and Spice. |
| 0:14.9 | And I'm Jay Parker, of Hot, Holy and Humorous. |
| 0:17.8 | Pull up a chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat. |
| 0:21.6 | Welcome to another episode of Sex Chat for Christian Wives. |
| 0:26.6 | Today we're going to take a little dive into a topic that is very important, but not quite as lighthearted as some of our other episodes. |
| 0:35.6 | So our topic today is going to be around |
| 0:38.5 | sexual betrayal, and that includes all kinds of sexual infidelity and sexual immorality. |
| 0:45.2 | This could be triggering for some of you, and if it is, please take really good care of yourselves, |
| 0:50.8 | do your grounding work, and if you need to turn us off and come back at another time, |
| 0:56.0 | please do that. We just want you to take good care of your emotional health and stay strong and |
| 1:00.9 | grounded. Most of you probably know by now that I have made a shift in my career, and now I am an |
| 1:08.2 | APSAT certified partner coach. An APSAT stands for the association of partners of sex addicts trauma specialists. |
| 1:16.8 | Actually, Bunny, can you start by telling us a little bit about what kinds of things fit under this umbrella of sexual betrayal? |
| 1:24.7 | What does that mean and what kind of experiences do people have that fall under |
| 1:29.4 | sexual betrayal? Sure. So if we just look at the word betrayal, betrayal only happens to someone |
| 1:36.5 | you are closely connected with. So a betrayal is a breach of trust. It can be thought of being a |
| 1:42.2 | traitor. You know, we all know of Benedict Arnold and he |
| 1:45.3 | betrayed the United States. So betrayal is a breach of trust. Sexual betrayal is a breach of the |
| 1:53.3 | marriage covenant because someone has chose to act and use their sexual energy outside of the marriage. |
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