Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self-betterment into a shot glass because let's face it who's got that much time

these days.

I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass,

you've come to the wrong place. We all others to,

have that one love experience we compare all others to, correct?

Usually this experience happened when we were younger, maybe for some of it was high school, maybe

college, or maybe in your 20s, late 20s, and we remember it like yesterday, that deep warm feeling of losing yourself in someone.

It feels like you're sinking into a warm bathtub after a long day of snowboarding.

You know what I'm talking about and listen I've been there.

I've been under it's paralyzing in a good way pure dopamine into the heart

with the

needle makes you feel invincible all your problems go away

well at least for a little bit

because it was also lined with control, jealousy, and dependence, which creates distortions and

gets me to ask the question, was it really love?

Now, the reason why it's so powerful and you keep going back to this experience

is because of how deep that imprint is, right? So for example, if you

go back to your high school now and you sit in that same chair that you sat in

homeroom you'll notice how tiny that chair is or you'll notice that the room is

actually so small or if you go you know over to the bikes where you got into the fight

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