Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self-betterment into a shotglass because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

So what started off as a gorgeous day for a fun mandate which would include some food, a

motorcycle ride and a hike ended up being sort of a nightmare for me if you haven't seen on Facebook because the video

ended up going viral and I have mixed feelings about this because you know I spend my life

Trying to create a important dialogue and get people

to maybe see something a different way or to challenge their thoughts and those videos get

not many views but then this one video of me

trying to climb a rock sideways and possibly falling into the cold river got

1.2 million views. Anyway, so I've never really been rock climbing and

my boys, not my sons, my friends, I call them my boys. We went to Malibu on a beautiful

motorcycle ride and then my friend Andy led us to a hike, which turned out to be, and he knew this shit,

he just didn't tell me because I know how he is, turned out to be an adventure of sorts.

We started climbing right rocks and it became more difficult.

It's one of those things where you just go so far, you just can't turn back.

And then when you're on a rock, you can't just jump down unless you're at an indoor climbing place.

You know if you're out in nature on a rock you either fall or I mean I don't know I didn't have the tools to like climb down I just there was only one

gear and it was forward so there's this thing called traversing I guess it's when you

kind of climb a rock sideways and I knew that if I fell into the cold

ocean it's a river that the motorcycle ride on the way home being soaked and it wasn't a hot day it was

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