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The Futur with Chris Do

What Grief Teaches Us About Love w/ Jule Kim | Ep 398

The Futur with Chris Do

The Futur

Arts, Education, Marketing, Design, Business, Self-improvement

4.9 • 998 Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2025

⏱️ 87 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Chris Do sits down with coach and creator Jule Kim for a powerful and emotional discussion on grief, loss, and healing. Jule opens up about losing her brother unexpectedly and how it reshaped her understanding of family, identity, and emotional connection. Together, they explore the cultural pressures that discourage vulnerability, the struggle to feel deeply, and how grief forces self-discovery in unexpected ways. Chris offers thoughtful reflections on empathy, boundaries, and how to truly support someone through pain. Timestamps (00:00) - Intro (01:36) - Lessons learned in loss (02:35) - Why no one talks about grief (03:13) - Chris on family and mortality (10:59) - How her brother’s death hit (18:20) - Hidden trauma and autism shared (24:33) - Organ donation process begins (33:42) - Family conflict and decision-making (41:43) - Legacy and meaning after loss (43:00) - Rituals, closure, and moving on (50:00) - Sudden emotions and healing process (58:18) - Preparing loved ones for the future (59:04) - Memories preserved through media (01:10:40) - Lessons learned from loss (01:15:25) - Acceptance and emotional growth (01:20:12) - Depression, family history, and healing (01:21:07) - Message of hope and help (01:21:38) - Crisis lifeline and support call (01:22:00) - Deep grief and full surrender (01:25:45) - Reflections and gratitude Check out today's guest, Jule Kim: Jule's LinkedIn: ⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/julekim/⁠⁠ Jule's Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/itsjulekim⁠⁠ Executive Coach Jule Kim : ⁠⁠https://adviceactually.com/⁠⁠ Jule Kim's Podcasts: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3Wy7NzSjPBFU42tGS0jUeB?si=27adaa65f448473c Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-is-how-you-think-a-personal-growth-and/id1821606552 Check out The Futur: Website: ⁠⁠https://www.thefutur.com/⁠⁠ Courses: ⁠⁠https://www.thefutur.com/shop⁠⁠ Linkedin: ⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-futur/⁠⁠ Podcasts: ⁠⁠https://thefutur.com/podcast⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thefuturishere/⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/theFuturisHere/⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://x.com/thefuturishere⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thefuturishere⁠⁠ Youtube:⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/thefuturishere⁠⁠ Check out Chris Do: Website: ⁠⁠https://zaap.bio/thechrisdo⁠⁠ LinkedIn:⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/thechrisdo/⁠⁠ Facebook:⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/BizOfDesign⁠⁠ Instagram:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thechrisdo/⁠⁠ Twitter:⁠⁠https://x.com/thechrisdo⁠⁠ TikTok:⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thechrisdo⁠⁠ Threads:⁠⁠https://www.threads.net/@thechrisdo⁠⁠ Zaap: ⁠⁠https://zaap.bio/thechrisdo⁠⁠ Clubhouse:⁠⁠https://www.clubhouse.com/@thechrisdo⁠⁠ Behance: ⁠⁠https://www.behance.net/chrisdo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everybody, what's up? On this episode, I'm going to talk to my good friend Jewel, who's

0:04.2

recently gone through some very dramatic, emotional, impactful changes in our life. And this

0:10.7

is a warning for everyone who's going through states of depression. Maybe you've lost a friend or

0:15.7

loved one. And if you're not ready to hear it, this is your trigger warning. I would love for

0:20.7

you to listen to this and share in our story. But if you're not ready to hear it, this is your trigger warning. I would love for you to listen to this and share in our story.

0:23.5

But if you're not in a mental, emotional state where you can do that, thank you for tuning in.

0:28.0

You may want to skip this episode.

0:30.0

And if you have little ones listening that aren't quite ready to process these weighty conversations,

0:35.4

I would also suggest you screen this before listening.

0:38.3

With that, let's get into this episode.

0:43.2

I believe I came to you maybe roughly a month ago, and I said, Chris, can we do an episode on grief?

0:50.2

And you said, we can talk about whatever.

0:52.7

But the timing of this right now is because my brother

0:55.6

passed away and it was very sudden. Throughout the whole process, I keep thinking to myself,

1:02.5

the things that I'm learning, the things that I wish I could do again, if I could have a do-over,

1:06.5

like I would do this differently. I wish I'd known these things. There are so many things I'm

1:10.7

learning and I keep thinking, wish I'd known these things. There are so many things I'm learning,

1:11.2

and I keep thinking, no person should learn these things this way. And when you're on this kind

1:18.3

of crash course timeline with everything happening, when you have somebody who's in the hospital,

1:23.2

you didn't anticipate this, you're struggling with this conflict of there's so many emotions. You're

1:29.8

crushed by everything going on. The very real possibility of sudden loss, there are strange

1:37.7

family dynamics if you have a family like mine. And then the doctors are in and out. There are

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