What Do You Really Want? Getting Out of Autopilot and the Prescribed Life — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Business, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.6 • 643 Ratings

🗓️ 6 January 2026

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Do you know what you really want in life or are you just reacting to whatever comes your way? Do you do things because they actually strengthen you or because some guy on a podcast said you should do them? And how can we get out of autopilot to begin the process of forging our own path? Today we dig into a question that scares a lot of people: What do you want? So many of us are firefighting, reacting, or quietly living a “prescribed life” and then wondering why we feel chronically trapped, drained, isolated, or out of alignment. Is there another way? Can we find and follow a different compass heading without blowing up everything we care about? Let’s find out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2026/01/what-do-you-really-want COACHING → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

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0:00.0	Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.
0:06.6	This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring
0:11.1	fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get
0:17.2	clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.
0:23.1	It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought
0:27.7	copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion
0:33.6	video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices
0:38.9	from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book.
0:43.8	Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older
0:48.6	version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact
0:53.0	form at triplinear.com and we'll get you all
0:55.7	set up. And one last thing. If you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,
1:00.4	please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.
1:05.5	Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous. And now let's start the
1:10.1	show. I've talked to
1:13.4	some guys and they're just like i don't know what i want like there's this really fearful thing
1:17.6	they're afraid to be asked that question i'm afraid if somebody asked me what do i want it's like i don't
1:22.8	know and i just want to say you do there's a there is knowing. And I want you to consider that the frustration and the drain you experience, those are
1:34.1	indicators that there's some desire, there's something that you want that's not being met
1:38.4	and it's not being spoken.
1:39.9	So it might feel like shit, that frustration and that drain, but it's actually information and it's really good information because behind that is the unspoken thing that you're wanting in your life.
1:51.8	You are listening to the new man beyond the macho jerk and the New Age Wimp.
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