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The New Man

Are They Busy or Just Not That Into You? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Business, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.6643 Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Do you care more about the relationship than your partner does? Does it seem like something else is getting their attention? And are your efforts to create time together actually pushing them away? Today Alyson and I talk about what it means when one partner is always busy or distracted. We explore why pushing for more connection can actually drive them away and why choosing to be busy may sometimes mean they’re just not that into you.   https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/12/too-busy-for-relationship   COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? “This Book Will Make You Dangerous” is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Transcript

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.2

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.9

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book.

0:43.8

Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older

0:48.6

version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact

0:53.0

form at triplinear., and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start

1:10.0

the show.

1:12.4

People will say what their priorities are, but their actions will demonstrate that. And that can

1:18.2

be quite a rude awakening. When we see the gulf between what we say is a priority and then what

1:27.1

our actions demonstrate.

1:28.8

It might be easier to just come to grips with it and be like, you know what?

1:32.5

This is what's more important to me.

1:34.3

I like to think that X, Y, Z is important, but it's really ABC.

1:39.2

Look at where my time and energy goes.

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