This is The Bird Show. So Krista isn't feeling entirely, entirely accepted by her husband. I just realized this is kind of going to be like a mini couple's court. Am I too extra or is my husband too big of a party pooper? That's what I need to figure out here. Again, can both things be true? Yeah, but that takes the fun out of it. Okay, there's no such thing as being too extra, okay? Girl, you guac, you extra, and we're all here for it. And again, for those of you that have never met Bart, I think we coined a great nickname for him the other day, and that is Bartichick. Bartichick. Okay, instead of Billichick from the formerly of the Patriots because he's got that attitude, man.

He's just, my man is middle of the road.

He's not too high.

He's not too low.

He just rides that middle.

He, I'm not going to say he's emotionless, but he's as close to emotionless as a person can get.

We're just going to call him steady.

He's just steady. All right. So here's some of the things that have happened as of recent that I just, I need a little more. I'm not trying to force the man to be something. He's not. Nor should I think he should try to force me to be something. I'm not. I also don't think that you you should just be like but this is who I am and you should accept it sometimes you need to look at your own behavior

and realize if it's if it's I don't want to say harming that's too harsh but if it is verging on

disrespectful of the other person well then make a couple of changes. I think that's okay.

In this instance, though, I do not feel like I'm in the wrong.

I feel like I had the right amount of enthusiasm, and he did not match my energy.

I need my man to match my energy.

He is not capable of that.

His DNA, his circuitry is not capable of that.

And then in this instance, Bert, what I'm saying is you might need to make some changes

and some tweaks.

Okay.

For the sake of me and for the sake of our son.

All right?

Because my son, guess what? He's extra. He's enthusiastic. He's, he's, I'm not even going to say theatrical, but he's, he's a lot. Okay. And Bart's trying to slowly break him with that. But in a good way, right? He's just, he's very expressive. He's very joyful. Like he's like he's fun. I like it.

Yeah. Me and my son are fun. Bart is not. Anyway, all right. So what had happened was, and I'm going to break this down, and I'm trying to explain to my husband. And I did, like in the moment, my feelings were very hurt, all right? My feelings were very hurt. hurt and if you're about to ask did you talk to your husband about this no I did not this is my first time like explaining this

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