This is the virtue. Hey, you want to be supportive of your partner, no matter what, unconditionally,

right? Just sometimes you just don't know what that looks like though, and how to help

out and how to support. Well, that's why you have the whole

for better for worse in the vows. Like, you take them at their best and you take them at

their worst and you try to figure out a way to get through it. That's not what I'm putting

in my vows. For better for worse? Just for better. Okay.

Like so long as things are cool and we're getting along and things don't get too rocky

then we can hang out forever. That's fair. I'm sure that's I think that's going to go

over swimmingly. I got to write that down. I felt very poetic. So Cassia as a friend

that's kind of going through this right now. Once the support, but just doesn't know how

to do it. It's pretty serious. Yeah. My friends husband has decided that he is he's

starting AA. He they don't have problems in their relationship because of it. It's not

sort of like he's not at rock bottom or anything, but he just kind of feels out of control

around alcohol and has decided since it runs in his family, he wants to try and do something

about it preemptively before it's a runaway train for him. So he has started going to

AA meetings and my friend is super supportive of this like wants to have his back, but she

doesn't really know how to help him. Because he said like you don't need to stop drinking.

You don't need to like change what you do. I don't mind if alcohol is in the house and

she wants to follow his lead, but she also doesn't know if maybe that's not the best idea,

but she's kind of afraid of offending him if she does remove all the alcohol from the house.

And so we were talking and she's like I don't know how to be a supportive partner to him

besides being there and being like yes, I got you do what you need to do. I'll take

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