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Today we'll be breaking down what 100 plus fathers reveal about successful leadership at home and work.

To drop these five bonds, I brought to Derek, Not Men, and H. Adam H. Adam H. H. Adofire Studios. Derek is a founder entrepreneur and devoted dad, helping fathers lead with purpose at home and at work. He co-authored Rebel Dad after interviewing 100 fathers worldwide. Adam is the CEO and founder of Asset to Map, a wealth tech firm, simplifying financial planning visually, and co-founder of Rebel Dad dads. And today we talk about the hidden

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and share something that you believe about becoming successful that most people disagree with.

Hey, John. Great to be with you, my man. Thank you very much. Hello, everybody. So what is one thing

that most successful people disagree with? Well, honestly, I think that it's, they disagree with

that success without alignment really isn't success.

And so let me elaborate on that. Society tends to measure success by things like, I don't

revenue, our titles, how many followers we have on social media, our net worth, the cars we drive.

And let's face it, those things are great. But we've also met a lot of people who have achieved all of those things, but still at the end of the day, kind of felt disconnected from their families, their mental and physical health, just themselves in general.

And so through Rebel Dads and all the, you know, the interviewing we did for the book, what Adam and I found is that a lot of people who felt most fulfilled weren't necessarily the wealthiest or had the most followers or anything

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