Welcome to the Girl on Top Shallon XO podcast. I'm your host

Shallon Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze

celebrities and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

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if you like it, and follow me on Instagram at channel and exo and find me on YouTube for four new videos a week. Welcome back to the podcast Showners. Now before again we got to do our relaxation ritual

so we're going to drop our shoulders. We're just going to be present in the moment. Relax our ears. Take our

tongue from the roof of our mouth and breathe deep into our belly. In through the

nose. into the nose and

and out through the mouth one more time in through the nose and out through the mouth

now our mind is right to receive the message and the people saying

shallelu ya. So our first question is about family obligations and chinchillas.

Kate said I recently came across your channel and I love it.

I'm a pet sitter, a chinchilla mom, and a freelancer.

I live at home since I plan to be gone half the year doing work and stuff.

Anyway, one of my cousins is engaged. We don't

really know each other though. I have zero desire to go to this wedding.

However, my mom doesn't understand that working from home is still work and she expects me to take her. I told

her I am not going to this wedding but she still is like insisting that we go. The

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