Welcome to the Girl on Top Shalyn Exo podcast.

I'm your host Shalin Lester and you might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze

celebrity relationships and scandals for the lessons we can take into our own lives.

But here on the podcast, I answer the best questions you submitted over the past week.

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Welcome back to the podcast, Shalieners. Before we get into it, let's do our relaxation ritual.

We're going to close our eyes, sit someplace comfy, right? Drop your

shoulders, loosen your jaw. We carry so much tension in our jaw. Think about relaxing your

ears, like the inside of your ears. Relax your eyebrows. Take your tongue off the roof of your mouth.

Now we're going to breathe in and exhale.

One more time, really holding in that breath and letting it get all the way into your lungs.

In, and out. Isn't that nice? And do I sound better this week? Last week I had a cold

and so many of you guys were like, what's wrong with you? And someone was even like, is that even you on the

podcast? Is this an imposter? Is this like the Avril Levine conspiracy? Like she's been

replaced with a body double? No, girl, it's just me without my suit of fed traveling in Europe.

But I'm back and so is my voice. So Tori sent this question. Said, dear Shalon, I've been involved

with my boyfriend for almost two years. I'm 27 and he's 30. And we just are not right for each other. He is extremely

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