You know, if Dave and I have learned anything in our 45 years of marriage, it's how to fight.

And we're kidding, but not really.

But one thing we didn't know is that we each have our own reactive coping style when we're in stressful situations.

And mine's the best one, by the way.

It's not.

And how we react can actually hurt all of our relationships.

So our friends, Ron and Nandiel, created an easy assessment for you to learn your reactive style.

You can take it now at familylife.com slash mindful marriage.

And we'll also send you chapter one of their new book.

Again, go to familylife.com slash mindful marriage to start we'll also send you chapter one of their new book. Again, go to family

life.com slash mindful marriage to start mindfully working toward your best relationships. We need this.

We do. We were never, neither one of us were ever interested in playing pastor and first lady.

We're very much human beings first, children of God, and that means we're being

sanctified. Like, I still say, the first seven years of our marriage were brutal. And you would see,

like some people, you can see new people in the crowd being in the number of people that were like,

the second you said that, I knew I could be here. All right, so we're on the road, family life today on the road. I don't know where we are. Where are we? You are in Highland Village, Texas, a suburb of Dallas. I thought we're in Flower Mountain. No, that's directly across the street. It's so close. We're all like... Did you know where we were? I'm just following you wherever we go. We were sitting in Matt and Lauren Chandler's family room, right? Is that what I know? I'm in your church. Lauren, yeah, this is the student building. Was this the original church, though? This was. The original, like, it's just like an old ranch style building right there that I can see. Nobody else can, but it, well, Lauren. That was the

original. This was built in 86. And now we're about a mile down the road in a storefront.

When you were first preaching, was it here? It was right here. Really? Yeah. And is this only for

students now? Really, students pretty much are here, but it's about to get an upgrade. And then young adults

and men's, it'll have all sorts of fun things to do. And so for now, though, this is students.

There'll be hundreds of them here tonight. It's really cool. Yeah. Is it this fun to get to

interview them? We've always wanted to be with Matt and Lauren. And here we are. Here we are. And I'm sure you've always wanted to be with Matt and all right. And here we are.

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