Dave and I joke that we've mastered fighting in our marriage.

Yes, we have.

But what we've really learned is that stressful situations trigger different reactive coping styles in each of us, which can really harm relationships.

Oh, yeah.

Ron and Nandiel have created an assessment to help you discover your style.

So take it at familylife.com slash mindful marriage

and get chapter one of their book. Go to family life.com slash mindful marriage to start building

better relationships mindfully. If a parent is afraid that a child may make a mistake, deal with that.

I need to allow my four-year-old to

spill the milk, even though it's going to be a hassle. Now, move the computer first. I mean,

protect what you can. But I'm going to let them spill the milk so that they understand that I know

what I'm talking about. Let them learn. Today's going to be a great day because Kathy Cook is back with us.

I thought you were going to say because I was here.

Honey, it's always a good day when you're with me.

There's never a bad day.

Well, maybe there is.

But at least we're in it together.

Kathy Cook, welcome.

Thank you.

It's so good to be here.

You just told us not to say how fantastic you are.

So let's just get right to the show. It's going to be mediocre, what's going to be.

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