You know, if Dave and I have learned anything in our 45 years of marriage, it's how to fight.

And we're kidding, but not really.

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And mine's the best one, by the way.

It's not.

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We do. One night, Gloria is having to meltdown and Bruce goes in there to deal with the situation

and I hear it escalate. I'm just like, you need to calm down.

I'm like, oh, that's going to work.

And I don't know why that made me so mad.

I'm so mad.

I was just.

Because you're tired.

I'm like, I got up.

I'm in here at least trying and that's the remark I get, not like, hey, thanks for giving it a try.

And then he says, I'm desperate.

And that made me mad because I'm like, you're desperate.

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