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We’re Good at Capitalism. Can We Get Better at Love?

the goop podcast

Gwyneth Paltrow

Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.37.1K Ratings

🗓️ 8 December 2020

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Mellody Hayes, MD, is an anesthesiologist, a healer, a spiritual teacher, and a powerful voice in the psychedelic movement. Though Hayes has worked in traditional medicine for her whole career, she says her spiritual life greatly informs how she approaches human healing—and she keeps up with medical journals and Pema Chödrön in equal measure. Today, she joins host Elise Loehnen to talk about the societal stresses that contribute to illness, how psychedelic medicine could help heal intergenerational trauma, and why love is at the center of everything she does. “When you try and shame someone into correction, you get obedience, but you haven’t won their participation,” she says. “How do we shift people? Believe it or not: We love them more; we love them harder.” (For more, see The goop Podcast hub.) To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Don't hold anything too tightly. Just wish for it, want it, let it come from the

0:10.6

intention of real truth for you, and then let it go. For me our soul is like it's

0:16.8

unbound, it's limitless, but we will use words to limit ourselves. When people

0:23.2

stop believing that somebody's got your back or Superman's coming we turn to

0:28.9

ourselves and that's where you become empowered. Courageous participation attracts

0:35.3

positive things. I'm Gwyneth Paltrow. This is the Goop podcast bringing together

0:42.0

thought leaders, culture changers, creatives, founders and CEOs, scientists,

0:47.6

doctors, healers and seekers. Here to start conversations because simply asking

0:53.1

questions and listening has the power to change the way we see the world.

0:56.8

Today is no exception. I'll let Elise fill you in on her extraordinary guest.

1:02.5

All right, over to Elise. Our guest today is Dr. Melody Hayes. Dr. Hayes is a UCSF

1:11.8

trained anesthesiologist, a healer, a spiritual teacher and a powerful voice

1:16.0

in the psychedelic movement. Though she has worked in traditional medicine for

1:19.8

her entire career, her spirituality is central to her being. It greatly informs

1:25.1

her work as a physician and how she approaches human healing.

1:28.8

Today we talk about the function of healing circles and how she believes they can

1:33.0

help break down intergenerational trauma. We talk about how to make the therapy

1:37.2

model accessible for everyone and we talk about the ways that racism and

1:40.8

classism feed into our illusions of scarcity. We also talk about why she

1:45.5

believes that shame is at the center of the divisiveness in our country

1:49.3

and how we can each take ownership of the shame that we, perhaps unknowingly,

1:53.6

thrust onto others. Really, when you try to shame someone into correction,

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