Happy Sunday and welcome to brunch with Desby. I'm your host Des also known as Desby here to provide you with your favorite way to start the week.

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What's up, you guys? Happy Sunday. I was not looking forward to recording this, but now that I'm here looking at myself in the camera, I'm in my comfy clothes.

I'm talking to my favorite girls and guys like I'm ready. I'm like I'm ready. I'm I'm arrived. So excited to be back. It's been I mean, it's only been like two weeks since I recorded, but it's like it's only been one episode, right? But it feels like so much longer because I didn't have to record because I early recorded with Vanessa and Zander. So if you guys have not listened to last week's episode, please, please, please go give it a listen. It was all about just like sex initiation.

Husband wife stuff, partner stuff, turning your partner down for sex, initiating it like it was such a good episode. I think that it was really important for a lot of us to hear and a lot of points where we could all kind of, you know, vibe with it and feel the same way. So Vanessa and Zander, thank you again for coming on to the podcast, but you know what I'm going to be. I'm going to be pretty real with you guys like this is my podcast, you know, I've come to realize I truly just am a solo podcaster. You know what I mean?

Other people have their strengths for a reason. And I do think that if I had someone in person that just like joined the show, like when Wyatt joins the show, right? And we do brunch with desby, but I just have a co host, right? That's different than like interviewing. I am not the person to like interview. I like to just talk. I like to talk shit. I like to gossip. Like, Vanessa and Zander, like come back and like let's talk about celebrity pop culture. You know what I mean? Like that's my vibe. So anyways, this is my podcast.

You know, it's called brunch with desby for a reason. Like it's it's about me. It's about me. It's about you. It's about us. It's not about anyone else except when Wyatt joins us sometimes. You know what I'm saying? So very exciting past couple weeks. I was able to go on vacation. You guys already know by now, but I did go to Florida.

It was really nice because I got a week away from Wyatt while being able to stay at his dad's house. Slay. They went on a father's son trip and so we were able to stay at my father and lost house. All 10 of us went. Let me tell you the stress of the airport, checking all of our shit. I had to drive at one point of 14 passenger van. Move over Mrs. Dugger because Mrs. Piper is here. I'm deriving. I'm whipping that bitch on the highway. I parked that bitch. Well, I well, I well, we parked.

I reversed like I was low key killing it. Okay, but this stress of getting there and back. It was going to be honest with just way too much. I was like, we're we're not tripping together again. You know what I mean? Like we're also like of each other.

I don't know if you guys have the same way when you like go on vacation with your family. Like I actually didn't come back like super annoyed. Like I could have definitely continued to vacation with my family. Like it was great. But there is a part of you where you're like mom.

I've been around you too long this week. We we need our space. Okay, this is why I moved out in the first place. We we butt heads.

You go take a little T.O. I take a T.O. We'll come back in 10. You know what I mean? So it was a really fun time though. Honestly, I've really come to this realization that hold on. I need to I need to sit before we really talk about this.

For those of you not watching, I'm actually pounding a for loco. No, I'm just kidding. It's just an awani new cherry slush.

I've come to the realization for many years, but I feel like I've just hidden it very deep in my soul that I in fact am on the spectrum of being a Disney adult.

Thank you. Thank you. I know it had to be acknowledged. And you know, I'm going to stand strong in it because here's the thing.

And I'm still going to I'm still going to make fun of some of your bitches. Because you will never see me wearing ears. All right, I took a picture in one to like make a fucking joke bitch. You will not see me galloping down magic lane or whatever the hell the street is called leading to the castle. You will not see me having ears on.

Okay, you will see me riding rides. You will see me buying merch. I mean, for God's sake, I'm wearing my Mickey Mouse fucking sweatpants right now because they're comfy and their merch is lit.

But you will not see me wearing ears. You will not see me say I was not married. You will not see me throwing a bachelor at party at Disney. You will not see me at Disney for a honeymoon.

You will not see me at Disney for couples retreat. You will not see me running a Disney 5K or dressing up as a princess. Okay, you won't see that shit. So I'm not going to sit here and say I'm on the highest tier of Disney doll.

I still think there's people out there crazier than me. But and I'm always just fucking with you guys. I will stand firm in the fact that I was wrong. And you guys can shit talk me for that.

I will allow you today for 24 hours. You are more than welcome to come into my DMs and just talk some shit. I fucking knew it. You're a dumb bitch. I'll take it. I'll take it because listen. I'm I'm punching myself because I feel like I haven't been able to live in my truth for years. I've had to hide. I've had to pretend.

I've had to put up a facade that every time I passed a Disney store or saw a Disney phone case that I didn't want to I had to I had to fake it. I had to pretend I had to push it down in the depths of my fucking soul that I didn't relate with it.

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