These are my personal opinions always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

When are you going to wash your hands of that thing? When are you going to wash your hands of that job, that relationship, that commitment that you believe you need to keep.

I know I just burst into today's episode with that question and maybe you don't have anything

to wash your hands of or off.

I did at one time and it was my earliest relationship.

One of my earliest relationships.

I owned a property with my partner at the time and we broke up.

We were together for over a decade and then she left.

She was done.

She was done with the relationship.

I've talked about that breakup in other episodes and it's basically

she fell out of love and she didn't want to be with me anymore. But we had a property together.

We owned a condo together and after we broke up, I ended up staying and she left. So now I was in

this condo. My name's on the mortgage. Her name's on the mortgage.

And there was no chance of getting back together. That was it. And we never really talked about

what to do with the condo. I don't know for several weeks or maybe longer, maybe months, I don't

remember. And one day I just realized, well, I was questioning, what am I going to do

with this? What are we going to do with this? Do I sell it or do I do something else? And

and so that question popped up in my mind and I'm sure she was thinking about it too, but we never talked about it. And so I question popped up in my mind, and I'm sure she was thinking about it too,

but we never talked about it.

And so I brought it up one day.

And I asked her, you know, what are we going to do with this?

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