The pressure of sex and expectations in an established relationship
The Overwhelmed Brain
Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 19 January 2025
⏱️ 40 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | These are my personal opinions always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:11.2 | Good to connect with you again. Glad you are here. Thanks for joining me. I want to read something that I received in the Overwhelmed Brain Empowerment Group on Facebook, |
| 0:22.2 | which you are welcome to join. |
| 0:25.6 | Just look up the overwhelmed brain in Facebook and you'll see the group. |
| 0:26.6 | Somebody wrote, |
| 0:28.3 | I have a question that's been baffling me. If somebody tells you their needs aren't being met, |
| 0:31.6 | but is referring to sexual means, |
| 0:35.2 | are those still considered needs? |
| 0:37.8 | Or is it a reaction from other needs not being met? |
| 0:41.6 | I feel it can also be weaponized against somebody if this were the case. |
| 0:45.5 | So I'm just looking for some clarity. |
| 0:47.5 | Thank you. |
| 0:48.9 | There's a quick question with a very deep well of meaning. |
| 0:53.2 | So when I answer these questions, I like to put myself in the position of the person asking |
| 0:59.2 | and the person they're asking about. |
| 1:02.5 | Person asking is probably in a place where somebody wants more sex or wants some specific kind of sex or something and that person sounds like |
| 1:16.4 | they're saying what about my needs I have needs too and they're talking of a sexual nature |
| 1:24.6 | here's my first quick answer I don't I don't know if I have a long answer but I don't have Here is my first quick answer. |
| 1:28.4 | I don't know if I have a long answer, but I do have a quick answer. |
| 1:30.9 | My quick answer is sex involves two people that must meet in the middle somewhere |
| 1:38.3 | to mutually agree to perform the act. |
| 1:47.4 | And don't write to me and say, sometimes it's more than two people. |
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