Wanting more than friendship when they don't
The Overwhelmed Brain
Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert
4.5 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 16 November 2025
⏱️ 34 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being. |
| 0:10.8 | Okay, I want you to imagine you have a good friend or even a potential romantic partner. |
| 0:19.3 | And it's a new relationship and you're really enjoying their company. |
| 0:23.4 | And so you hang out for a while, you know, going out every now and then. |
| 0:27.3 | Again, could be romantic, could be a friendship. |
| 0:30.7 | And let's just say that after hanging out for a while, they say, hey, I want to take you |
| 0:35.3 | to this place. |
| 0:36.8 | We're going to have some food. |
| 0:38.0 | And it's just a little get together between some work buddies and myself. I'd love to take you there. |
| 0:44.6 | And you say, okay, that sounds good. You know, we're hanging out. You're thinking to yourself, we're |
| 0:49.3 | in a good time. Why not? Let's do that. And it's no big deal. And then you get there and sit through |
| 0:58.9 | a two-hour multi-level marketing meeting. And I'm not putting down MLMs, although I do have a |
| 1:08.0 | problem with them. But if you're in one and it works for you, totally, |
| 1:12.1 | that's great. That's awesome. Do your thing. But this actually happened to a person, my ex, |
| 1:17.2 | actually one of my ex-girlfriends, my first long-term relationship. She told me that she met |
| 1:23.0 | this guy. This is before we met. And he took her to an MLM event. |
| 1:29.8 | I think it was Amway or something. |
| 1:31.2 | I'm not sure. |
| 1:31.9 | But she told me that she felt this huge betrayal. |
| 1:37.3 | They were friends. |
| 1:38.5 | He was kind to her and he was appearing to be wanting a relationship with her. But his goal, at least |
| 1:48.1 | in that moment, was to get her into his downline. If you're not familiar with that, it's basically |
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