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The Overwhelmed Brain

Wanting more than friendship when they don't

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

I think the phrase, "Lovers for a moment, friends for a lifetime" is very true in many cases. Sometimes a friendship can develop into something more. Other times a development could end what was already great as-is. Does love conquer all?

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0:00.0

These are my personal opinions. Always seek a professional when you're making choices about your mental health and well-being.

0:10.8

Okay, I want you to imagine you have a good friend or even a potential romantic partner.

0:19.3

And it's a new relationship and you're really enjoying their company.

0:23.4

And so you hang out for a while, you know, going out every now and then.

0:27.3

Again, could be romantic, could be a friendship.

0:30.7

And let's just say that after hanging out for a while, they say, hey, I want to take you

0:35.3

to this place.

0:36.8

We're going to have some food.

0:38.0

And it's just a little get together between some work buddies and myself. I'd love to take you there.

0:44.6

And you say, okay, that sounds good. You know, we're hanging out. You're thinking to yourself, we're

0:49.3

in a good time. Why not? Let's do that. And it's no big deal. And then you get there and sit through

0:58.9

a two-hour multi-level marketing meeting. And I'm not putting down MLMs, although I do have a

1:08.0

problem with them. But if you're in one and it works for you, totally,

1:12.1

that's great. That's awesome. Do your thing. But this actually happened to a person, my ex,

1:17.2

actually one of my ex-girlfriends, my first long-term relationship. She told me that she met

1:23.0

this guy. This is before we met. And he took her to an MLM event.

1:29.8

I think it was Amway or something.

1:31.2

I'm not sure.

1:31.9

But she told me that she felt this huge betrayal.

1:37.3

They were friends.

1:38.5

He was kind to her and he was appearing to be wanting a relationship with her. But his goal, at least

1:48.1

in that moment, was to get her into his downline. If you're not familiar with that, it's basically

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