All right, wife and mother of our beautiful child, how are you doing?

Hello. I'm doing well. How are you? Great.

This is what it sounds like when you don't have a lot of sleep. That's pretty, it's pretty true.

All right. So we're going to talk about becoming parents. All right. I've been getting, I don't know about you,

but I've gotten a few

questions about becoming a dad, how this changed me, what it's been like for you, the pregnancy,

how it's impacted our relationship, all of that good jazz. So I thought, I thought we would

talk a little bit about having a child first and foremost

and what that was like for us. But then secondly, how we've navigated that within the context

of our relationship, specifically what was it like while you were pregnant and has anything

shifted while, you know, since having a child, even though we're, you know,

we're, as Stephen Jenkinson recently called it, we're parentlings.

We're like fledgling parents, you know, just fresh out of the nest.

But yeah, so why don't we just start broad and then we'll go a little bit deeper, but what was your

experience like being pregnant? And yeah, what was the highlight? What was surprising? What was

challenging for you? I enjoyed being pregnant. I was excited to be pregnant and go through that process. I think I recall you

feeling concerned, though, that I wasn't like attaching early on in the pregnancy. Just for clarity's

sake, I'm never concerned.

Never.

Well, you had a few things to say about it.

What do you mean by that?

That I was concerned that you weren't attaching.

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