Victim blamers, capitalism rant, and other things
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 25 December 2023
⏱️ 67 minutes
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00:00 Why do people victim blame?
13:09 Should I have kids?
19:54 OPP
21:44 What are 5 damaging social constructs?
33:57 What is a lack of sense of self?
35:42 How can I manage relational traumas?
50:58 OPP
51:59 Why do I question my therapists?
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December 25, 2023
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
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| 0:00.0 | So Bob a few weeks ago I sent a survey to everyone asking for questions for you so let's read those questions and respond. |
| 0:08.0 | Yeah. Anonymous patron says hi Bob and Kirk I have a colleague let's call him Jim who seems to be a notorious |
| 0:15.9 | victim blamer he knows not to ask questions like what was she wearing but he does |
| 0:21.2 | ask in what part of the city was she in? |
| 0:24.1 | Another coworker got into a bad breakup. |
| 0:27.3 | It turned out her boyfriend had been taken financial advantage of her. Of course, Jim's number one topic was how she is bad at selecting |
| 0:38.3 | boyfriends and should have seen this coming. Thankfully, he never tells this to anyone's face. He has the same response |
| 0:44.8 | when we discuss stories from the media. In most of these instances I tell him |
| 0:49.0 | that he is blaming the wrong person. I haven't been able to change his mind one bit. Do you |
| 0:54.2 | think people do this so they can feel safe themselves? Like if I'm smart enough |
| 0:59.4 | bad things won't happen to me? Or are there other reasons? so just chiming in here Bob what do you |
| 1:05.0 | think that's an interesting theory I I think there's a good shot of it the other |
| 1:08.8 | thought I had was perhaps maybe they feel responsible and somehow they offload responsibility by blaming the person, |
| 1:18.0 | the wrong person. I don't know, it's all speculation. Boy, how annoying that would be. |
| 1:25.0 | Yeah, I find it's common that people do this, don't you? |
| 1:29.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:30.0 | Yeah, they do. |
| 1:31.0 | All too common. |
| 1:32.0 | Yeah. And I think I could at least think thoughts like this. |
| 1:36.6 | Like if I heard about someone's car being broken into or them being mugged, I imagine that I would have at least a flash question of, well, what |
| 1:47.6 | part of town were they in, right? |
| 1:49.1 | And you know, it is a factor, I suppose, but it's, if that's all that you think and if it's particularly what you communicate |
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