The Bird Show. Okay, Terry here. I don't even know where to start. Poor little thing.

Hey, Terry. Hi. So you have to give everybody the backstory, but I cannot believe this

happened to you. Well, I mean, honestly, it isn't much backstory. It's just, it's just what

happened. It happened on Monday night. Um, so it's real fresh,

really fresh. And I went to bed and with my husband, I married to my husband, and um, I wake up

like at 2 a.m. I still not in bed, which is not super uncommon. And then I go in, I see that

the light from the living room is on and I go in and

he is watching, you know, TV and I didn't even, didn't notice me. And I didn't, I just sit there and

there I see that it's the sex tape of him and his ex-wife. And I really, I don't know how to feel about this right now.

So I...

What did he say? What was his reaction when he walked in?

He didn't see me. He didn't see me.

And you didn't make a scene?

What?

You didn't make a scene? You just went back to bed?

I was horrified. I was shocked, and I didn't, I couldn't speak. I didn't make a scene, you just went back to bed? I was horrified.

I was shocked, and I didn't, I couldn't speak. Didn't want to, didn't know what to say. Oh, no. So now it's Wednesday, and you've been living with this for over 24 hours now. Wow. Yeah. So. Oh, my gosh. He doesn't know that you saw him? No, I haven't said anything. I don't really know how to act towards him right now.

You know, I honestly have no idea what to do. Like, I don't know what this means about our marriage. I don't know if he still, you know, wants to be involved with her, or, you know, it's, it really, it really freaked me out. And I just have no idea. I know this is going to sound like it's a total overreaction, but that would totally feel like infidelity to me. Of course. I mean, it would feel like I just got cheated on. Wow. And it's his ex-wife. It's not the porn part. It's the ex-wife part that would bother me so much. Wow. Is there any question in your mind when the tape was made? Like, it's not current, right? No. No, I don't, no, I'm almost positive at that current. It was made. It was made in their old house. I mean, I recognize that. You know what I mean? And how long y'all been married now? We've been married for two years. Two years. I don't know what to say because I would be different than you. What would you do? Melissa, there you are. It's two in the morning. Oh, hell. You walk out there. Oh, hell no. There would have been a huge fight right there then. I think the knee-jerk reaction for me would have just been to start like, what the F are you doing? Yeah, it would have walked up. I would have taken the DVD out or the VHS tape or whatever it was. And I would have taken it out of the machine. I mean, I'm not judging you at all. I'm just saying that I don't know what advice to give you. No, I was like literally frozen. And I was like, should I be furious about this? Should I have no idea? I have such a temper that, yeah, I would have. It would have been a huge fight at the moment. So what's the statement that this is making? Like, is, man. Do you know for fact that he has watched porn before? Like, is that one part of it? And then there's this really... this really not not extensively and I didn't even think about it being you know something that he had created

ever you know because we've never done that we've never filmed ourselves so I I guess I'm

curious because you know I I feel my reaction would have been different.

Like, what are you, why are you, have you not confronted him yet?

What is it you're afraid of?

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