The Bert Show.

So intern Alexis is not here to speak for herself, but I want to relay to you guys, a situation that she's in right now with some of her friends, right? And of course, she detailed it to me, so I'm going to mess up a whole bunch of the information, but she's not here to clarify. This is similar, this is vaguely similar to whatever Alexis is going through, but it's been embellished quite a bit to make it good for the radio. I think I can, I think I've got the gist of it and the gist of the question that she has. And it goes something like this, like she's got a friend. That's probably, I'm guessing 23, 24, 25 years old. And been dating this guy for a couple of months. And the guy who was like pretty perfect in every area. I'm guessing

everything that she likes in a guy, this was the dude, right? height, right, sensitivity,

fun dude, smart dude, great across the board. But he was really, really, really bad in bed. Really bad in bed. And she waited it out. Because you know that first time, sometimes things don't work out so well. You're like, that's cool. I mean, the guy's so good. You know, in other areas, I'm sure this was just like first time jitters type thing. Didn't work out so well so stage fried or something maybe could be because

I'm under that that impression also like the first time that you ever have sex with somebody

generally is probably the worst that's going to be with that person right all right so second time

doesn't get any better third time now she's dreading having to sleep with this guy but she's

really conflicted because he's just not getting any better.

They've just started this relationship, really, so they're not at a point in the relationship

where she can say, look, here's what you need to do or point him in the right direction.

So the question she wanted to ask was, is it possible to have a really great relationship,

solid relationship with somebody,

even maybe even a marriage,

with the sex being absolutely horrible?

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Now, I want to get Jessica on for this.

But I don't know.

You know what?

That's such an important part of every relationship. I don't know that you know what, that's such an important part of every relationship.

I don't know that if she was asking me, I would say, I would say no.

I would say no overall, but I would also ask Alexis's friend if she had tried to make improvements.

Because sometimes women are afraid to talk to their guys about improvements

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