You're on the virtue.

So on Friday, we told her like, what are you even uncomfortable about?

You're not doing anything wrong.

And we kind of rehashed this debate of socially women have been, dang, I can't think of

another word, socialized.

Social women have been socialized as a bad side.

Pain in myself in a tight corner.

So like not say, hey, this is an uncomfortable situation, especially for the person that's

purposely doing what's uncomfortable.

Yeah, it's been like a societal pressure thing for centuries.

And it's just something women have adapted to and how we've, how we've been taught basically

is that when something is uncomfortable, you try to make it comfortable.

So if even if somebody else is in the wrong, it's so bizarre.

It really is a mind if somebody else is in the wrong, but you're so concerned with making

them feel uncomfortable that you won't point out the injustice or what's been, how you've

been wronged for fear of making it an uncomfortable situation.

So in this case, when we are talking to Tina on Friday, Tina, refresh our memory here.

This friend of yours, this guy friend, you guys have been friends for how long?

So a while, like first year of college, so one was bad.

It's like 15, 16 years.

15, 16 years.

And it's always been platonic.

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